I need help, iv just found out im pregnant to my boyfriend whom i love completly, i was devastated, the problem is he's indian, his parents are planning on him getting an arranged marriage next year and we've always known this. he says no matter wot i do he will support me but i know that if i carry on with this pregnancy his whole family will disown him, ill rip his life apart and he'll be left with nothing. I love him sooo much and i cant bare to do this to him so iv told him and my dad ill have an abortion. my dad thinks its the best option, my partner hates himself for me going through all this and im so torn. i no i cant have this baby, it would cause to much heart ache but the idea of a termination is killing me :( i dont no what to do, i dont even know if ill be strong enough to cope with all this. i really wish i could talk to my mum about it but its better she doesnt no 

Oh my. Im 7 days delayed, I supposed to have my period last oct.15 but it didn't come. Last two weeks I'm really stressed out because of school. But now I'm freaking out because of this delayed menstruation. I dont want my parents to be hurt they're expecting a lot from me. I don't know what to do, I want to have my menstruation. And there's a white discharge in my undies, I'm really confused. I'm still not sure that I'm pregnant. I'm wishing that I'm not. I'm not yet ready with this huge responsibility. I'm just 2nd college student. :(

Im 17 years old. When i was 16 i met my first boyfriend. He was amazing. I was totaly smittened. Looking back on it now i realise how me manipulated me within that month we were together. I was a virgin and within a month i had gone from only ever have kissed a gy to everything but sex. I kept telling him that i wanted to wait and that i wanted it to be special. Then on the 20th of july 2009 he changed, he took advantage of me. I was so scared and didnt no what to do. I was frozen all night whilst he lay asleap next to me, showing no remorse for what he had done. In the morning he left and completly ignored me. i never heard from him again, i was discarded and used like an old tissue and its how i felt. I told my mum thinking she could help me but she said how she was disapointed in that i let my self into that situation. After that i lost all my self respect and didnt care.Since that date i have slept with 4 gys. 1 i dont no who he is. Recently i got a boyfriend but he means nothing to me. I have been cheating on him with someone who i am falling for. Im so scared that i will become vulnerable, the gy who i am with behing my boyfriends back is 24 but the age gap doesnt matter to us, when im with him everything feels good but last week we had sex and i have suffered a few of the symptoms that have been mensioned. If im pregnant my life will be over i am so worried. I saw this website and thought someone might be able to help 

VANESSA x

Im 19 and i have a beautiful  4 month old baby and i have found out that i am pregnant again and im already 11 1/2 weeks.My bf at first did not want our first child due to our futures and i made the decision to keep her.She is bot of our worlds=] our everything. Well anyways i went to the er the other day for having pains and ended up getting A ultrasound and seen the baby moving and everything