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Mar 05
2011

Statistical Momma

Posted by tpdaniel84 in young mum , worrying pregnancy , truth about being a young mother , telling parents , teen moms , suprise pregnancy , support change , stress , soul searching , sex , scared and excited , scared , pregnant at 15 , pregnancy teenage , Pregnancy , parents , parenting , pain , one and pregnant again , nervous , My Story , my storey , my side , my life , my experiences , my baby , moving on , mommy , Meant to be , marraige , love , Lifes toughwe can get through , Lifes tough we can get through , life , letting go , Kids , Im trap , i made that choice , I kept going on , heartbroken , happiness , drama , diary , depressed , crisis , crazy , Biggest Struggle of My Life , babys father , baby mama , Baby , babies , acceptance , 19 and pregnant , 16 and pregnant , 16 and a mother

tpdaniel84

What teenager ever thinks she would be a mother by the age of 17 let alone a mother of three by the time she was 21? A bet a lot of them don't. I know I didn't. At the age of 16, I became just another teenage statistic, a statistical momma. That was in 2001. Back then there were no TV shows of teenage pregnancy glamorizing the epidemic or even TV movies like "The Pregnancy Pact" to scare the thoughts of having babies out of young girls' minds. Those things didn't come along until I was 22 and two kids later. If I would have saw those shows back then, I would have definably gave sex a third and fourth thought .

I was young and naive. You never think it would happen to you. I am so tired of seeing these girls from 16 and Pregnant being thrown all around in the media and being paid major cash to be a statistical momma. I work hard for to take care of the babies I brought into this world and trust me when I say I have sacrificed everything for them. Is it fair that so many teenage parents are struggling and they get to be put on a pedestal for going through the "babymomma" and "babydaddy" drama. I don't think so. Why not try to help these teenage parents be all they can be and be role models for their children. Give them some counseling and some skills training, instead of teaching them to pose for a magazine cover. These are just some thoughts. We all know what sells. So can you expect anything more?

Mar 10
2009

prego again and kinda scared

Posted by duffy123 in truth about being a young mother

duffy123

So i had a child when i was 17 and she is now 7 months old and im 18 but something has happened, i am prego again my fiance is so amazing but can i really handle it all, i am so overwhelmed and scared. How do you know if it is the right thing to do? how will you ever know if your doing the right thing! i wanna be an amazing mom i want to be there all the time, but i am loosing confidence due to

Feb 19
2009

krystian

Posted by teri in truth about being a young mother , internal examination , Happy , Family , Could I be PREGNANT , boyfriend , 19

teri
My name is Teri,,i'm fron ireland,,My son Krystian was born on the 21st June 2008,,He is the most beautiful thing I ever loved in my life,,at the moment I am very happy in my life with my husband and my son.
Sep 16
2008

I URGE YOU TO WAIT!

Posted by Ch3y_IS_BACK!! in truth about being a young mother , standupgirl , single , silent crying , sex , scared and excited , My Story , my experiences , mommy , miscarraige , love , lost , lonely , Lifes toughwe can get through , i made that choice , hospital , hormones , BAD BAD STUFF , babys father , about me , ababyverybadpregnancy , 19 , 18 and pregnant , 17 pregnant with a girl , 15 and pregnanant

Ch3y_IS_BACK!!

To all the young girls of SUG who are TTC.......I URGE YOU TO WAIT!!

 Some of you may know my story, some may not but when I first joined SUG I was a 19 year old girl who was desperately wanting a baby. ike some of you I cried for one, prayed for one spent so much time looking at baby clothes, pregnancy sites and parenting sites. Hoping and wishing every month my period woud be a no

May 08
2008

Tell your story!

Posted by Kinsey in truth about being a young mother , Lifes tough we can get through

Kinsey
I am looking for people who are willing to tell their stories for a book for teenage mothers and fathers. Your name wouldn't be with your story so people wouldn't know that it's you unless you want them to know. I would also love some pictures, but don't feel pressured. I am going to be getting it published once it's done and i would love for other teenagers to hear other peoples
Jan 14
2008

Positive light in a cloud of negetive darkness...thank the Lord for SUG!

Posted by Ch3y_IS_BACK!! in truth about being a young mother , scared and excited , relief , Pregnancy , my experiences , marraige

Ch3y_IS_BACK!!

So a little bit of an update...I finally found a (very very VERY tiny) flat for me and my husband-to-be...words cannot express the pick-and-mix of emotions I am feeling right now. All good mind you, but just crazy. I'm someone who has never really had to be truely independant of my Mum. And while there were times when I stayed at my fiance's place when he moved reallty far away (sometimes

Nov 13
2007

The New Drama

Posted by in truth about being a young mother , Pregnancy , nervous , My Diary , More than I can say , babys father , about me

Today I told Lamar that I really didn't want to get the abortion and he has been acting so selfish. All he talks about is how it's going to ruin his life. HE doesn't consider my feelings and the risk of an abortion,not to mention the emotional downfall that I'm going to have after I get the abortion(if I get one). He has the nerve to tell me he doesn't want to hurt his current

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