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Mar 05
2011

Statistical Momma

Posted by tpdaniel84 in young mum , worrying pregnancy , truth about being a young mother , telling parents , teen moms , suprise pregnancy , support change , stress , soul searching , sex , scared and excited , scared , pregnant at 15 , pregnancy teenage , Pregnancy , parents , parenting , pain , one and pregnant again , nervous , My Story , my storey , my side , my life , my experiences , my baby , moving on , mommy , Meant to be , marraige , love , Lifes toughwe can get through , Lifes tough we can get through , life , letting go , Kids , Im trap , i made that choice , I kept going on , heartbroken , happiness , drama , diary , depressed , crisis , crazy , Biggest Struggle of My Life , babys father , baby mama , Baby , babies , acceptance , 19 and pregnant , 16 and pregnant , 16 and a mother

tpdaniel84

What teenager ever thinks she would be a mother by the age of 17 let alone a mother of three by the time she was 21? A bet a lot of them don't. I know I didn't. At the age of 16, I became just another teenage statistic, a statistical momma. That was in 2001. Back then there were no TV shows of teenage pregnancy glamorizing the epidemic or even TV movies like "The Pregnancy Pact" to scare the thoughts of having babies out of young girls' minds. Those things didn't come along until I was 22 and two kids later. If I would have saw those shows back then, I would have definably gave sex a third and fourth thought .

I was young and naive. You never think it would happen to you. I am so tired of seeing these girls from 16 and Pregnant being thrown all around in the media and being paid major cash to be a statistical momma. I work hard for to take care of the babies I brought into this world and trust me when I say I have sacrificed everything for them. Is it fair that so many teenage parents are struggling and they get to be put on a pedestal for going through the "babymomma" and "babydaddy" drama. I don't think so. Why not try to help these teenage parents be all they can be and be role models for their children. Give them some counseling and some skills training, instead of teaching them to pose for a magazine cover. These are just some thoughts. We all know what sells. So can you expect anything more?

Apr 21
2009

Finding out i was expecting.

Posted by j_reyna101 in telling parents , teen moms , scared and excited , Pregnancy , My Story , introduction , Family , confused and pregnant , babys father , Baby , 17

j_reyna101

I had just got back from a trip from vegas. I went for my birthday, to see my Godmother. I turned 17.  The trip was long and hot, and more so i was nausteated the whole while. which was new for me because i never get sick in the stomach. when i went to school that monday veryone began to notice changes, besides the nausea, i was sleeping and wasnt my full energetic self. And one of my teachers

Jan 22
2009

What do I do now ?

Posted by bucky93 in young , worrying pregnancy , telling parents , teen , scared , pain , Hurt , Could I be PREGNANT , afraid , 15

bucky93
    Hey; I'm only 15 and I think I may be pregant, I have alot of the symptoms like back pain, headaches, feeling sick all the time, really bad heart burn, feeling dizzy and my belly is starting to hurt a little bit and kinda looks like it is getting bigger, so on and I don't know what to do? and if I am I'm very scared because my mom is the type that will kick me out
Jan 03
2009

Help Me please !!

Posted by alexandriaturnerx in telling parents , teen , stress , depressed , alone , afraid , 14 and scared and pregnant , 14

alexandriaturnerx
Hello, My name is alexandria and i'm from the uk,
im 14 years old and i've just found out i'm pregnant,
I'm around 5 weeks gone.
I've told my mother and she has supported me really well,
She's on about me having an abortion without telling my father,
i'm really confused because in some ways i want to keep this child but my father with go absolutely
Dec 20
2008

Parent's Don't Know

Posted by vampireluver in young , unprotected sex , ultrasound , therapy , telling parents , stress , sorrow , single , silent crying , scared , regret , pregnant , lost , lonely , i thought i was looking after myself , Hurt , God , friends , depressed , catholic , Biggest Struggle of My Life , bf , babys father , alone , afraid , 14 and scared and pregnant

vampireluver
I'm 3 months pregnant and my parents don't know.  i think there starting to wonder why I'm gaining weight.  I know I'm pregnant because I've went to a doctor and a therapist. My therapist says I should tell my parents that I'm pregnant but I don't know how to.  They'd be so disapointed in me.  I'm there perfect little girl. It wasn't
Oct 14
2008

~Scared, Confussed & Worried ~

Posted by confussedlilnikki in telling parents , scared and excited , nervous , More than I can say , Could I be PREGNANT , babys father , and confused , alone , afraid , about me

confussedlilnikki

Hi all

Firstly i just want to say big ups to this website, reading everyone elses story has inspired me to write my own as i know im not the only person going through what i am at the moment!!

Where to start, well right now im actually confussed about wether im pregnant or not, i have sore and darkend nipples, heartburn, constant thirst and constant toilet stops as well as bloating

Mar 30
2008

help =[

Posted by genyboo in young , telling parents , scared and excited

genyboo

im 15 years old and i just found out i was pregnant im so confused about everything [it was unplanned] i told my boyfriend && he's happy and whant's me to keep it.i always been against abortions and think its SO wrong but when i told my mom she freaked out and immidiatly said i have to get an abortion.idk what to do she say's that it's going to ruin my life

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