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Mar 05
2011

Statistical Momma

Posted by tpdaniel84 in young mum , worrying pregnancy , truth about being a young mother , telling parents , teen moms , suprise pregnancy , support change , stress , soul searching , sex , scared and excited , scared , pregnant at 15 , pregnancy teenage , Pregnancy , parents , parenting , pain , one and pregnant again , nervous , My Story , my storey , my side , my life , my experiences , my baby , moving on , mommy , Meant to be , marraige , love , Lifes toughwe can get through , Lifes tough we can get through , life , letting go , Kids , Im trap , i made that choice , I kept going on , heartbroken , happiness , drama , diary , depressed , crisis , crazy , Biggest Struggle of My Life , babys father , baby mama , Baby , babies , acceptance , 19 and pregnant , 16 and pregnant , 16 and a mother

tpdaniel84

What teenager ever thinks she would be a mother by the age of 17 let alone a mother of three by the time she was 21? A bet a lot of them don't. I know I didn't. At the age of 16, I became just another teenage statistic, a statistical momma. That was in 2001. Back then there were no TV shows of teenage pregnancy glamorizing the epidemic or even TV movies like "The Pregnancy Pact" to scare the thoughts of having babies out of young girls' minds. Those things didn't come along until I was 22 and two kids later. If I would have saw those shows back then, I would have definably gave sex a third and fourth thought .

I was young and naive. You never think it would happen to you. I am so tired of seeing these girls from 16 and Pregnant being thrown all around in the media and being paid major cash to be a statistical momma. I work hard for to take care of the babies I brought into this world and trust me when I say I have sacrificed everything for them. Is it fair that so many teenage parents are struggling and they get to be put on a pedestal for going through the "babymomma" and "babydaddy" drama. I don't think so. Why not try to help these teenage parents be all they can be and be role models for their children. Give them some counseling and some skills training, instead of teaching them to pose for a magazine cover. These are just some thoughts. We all know what sells. So can you expect anything more?

Jan 09
2010

not such a happy new year

Posted by Evangeline in stress

Evangeline

I keep thinking that every new year will bring something better, that for some reason everything will change and magically things will go the way that I want then to... it never does. I don't know if I can go on like this much longer. It's like I'm going around in circles and don't learn from what goes wrong. I'm busy making mistakes that could cost me everything and I see myself doing it, but I can't stop myself. I'm putting so much pressure on myself, trying to be the perfect housewife, perfect girlfriend, perfect lover, perfect employee, perfect student, perfect daughter.... I'm so stressed and highly strung. I'm smoking almost 40 ciggies a day, drinking again... I'm blazing up the occasional joint which I haven't done since high school, it's all that keeps me sane these days. I feel ready to implode from all the pressure.

I'm busy destroying myself over something that I can't change. I'm physically and emotionally mutilating myself, trying to make everything work and I can't do this alone.

Oct 17
2009

Teen Baby Mama Explosion in our home town.

Posted by mycrazylife in stress , sex , pregnancy teenage , parenting , mom , freaked , baby mama

mycrazylife

Today, my thoughts are in high gear about kids, kids with babies. The United States has the highest rates of teen pregnancy and births in the western industrialized world. Teen pregnancy costs the United States at least $7

Jan 03
2009

Help Me please !!

Posted by alexandriaturnerx in telling parents , teen , stress , depressed , alone , afraid , 14 and scared and pregnant , 14

alexandriaturnerx
Hello, My name is alexandria and i'm from the uk,
im 14 years old and i've just found out i'm pregnant,
I'm around 5 weeks gone.
I've told my mother and she has supported me really well,
She's on about me having an abortion without telling my father,
i'm really confused because in some ways i want to keep this child but my father with go absolutely
Dec 20
2008

Parent's Don't Know

Posted by vampireluver in young , unprotected sex , ultrasound , therapy , telling parents , stress , sorrow , single , silent crying , scared , regret , pregnant , lost , lonely , i thought i was looking after myself , Hurt , God , friends , depressed , catholic , Biggest Struggle of My Life , bf , babys father , alone , afraid , 14 and scared and pregnant

vampireluver
I'm 3 months pregnant and my parents don't know.  i think there starting to wonder why I'm gaining weight.  I know I'm pregnant because I've went to a doctor and a therapist. My therapist says I should tell my parents that I'm pregnant but I don't know how to.  They'd be so disapointed in me.  I'm there perfect little girl. It wasn't
Dec 20
2008

Help!

Posted by ConfusedMess in teen , stress , scared , prego , parents , courage , alone , abuse , abortion , 15

ConfusedMess

Wow,so im stuck in a huge dillema!I need HELP! I am 3 Weeks pregnant & i am 15 years old. I have a very reliqious, strict family. My parents are super strict with me because I am the youngest of the family. Family of 5 and I am the only girl. It makes it more difficult knowing that they trust me so much and I went off and did something that they are not going to aprove of.

Feb 01
2008

Oh Goodness!

Posted by taycarwillow in update , stress , hormones

taycarwillow
So i havent been on in a long time. Life has been crazy since everyone found out. So my mom ended up telling my dad for me. He said he didnt wanna talk to me for awile. Then him and his wife took me and my boyfriend out to dinner and talked to us about it. They want us to put the baby up for adoption but that just doesnt feel right to me. It makes me mad that they would be fine not knowing their grandchild
Jan 15
2008

No clue, so sad.

Posted by Rockerbeauty in stress , Pregnancy , depression

Rockerbeauty
My name is Jen and I'm 22 years old. I'm 7 weeks pregnant with my first child. I'm a senior in college with one more semester to go and a possible job after I graduate. This pregnancy is supposed to be the greatest moment of my life but nothing seems to be going right.
My boyfriend who I've been with for 4 years says he wants nothing to do with a baby. I love him so much
Nov 24
2007

mental breakdown!

Posted by taycarwillow in stress , scared , breakdown

taycarwillow
im 9 weeks pregnant and im 15...my parents dont know yet and it feels like the biggest weight to carry because it is like mental agony. i've never kept something this big from my mom. and the fact that my boyfriends parents hate him and yell at him constantly about stuff he has done in the past. i've already had 2 mental breakdowns in the past 2 weeks..im so scared. im so stressed

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