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Mar 05
2011

Statistical Momma

Posted by tpdaniel84 in young mum , worrying pregnancy , truth about being a young mother , telling parents , teen moms , suprise pregnancy , support change , stress , soul searching , sex , scared and excited , scared , pregnant at 15 , pregnancy teenage , Pregnancy , parents , parenting , pain , one and pregnant again , nervous , My Story , my storey , my side , my life , my experiences , my baby , moving on , mommy , Meant to be , marraige , love , Lifes toughwe can get through , Lifes tough we can get through , life , letting go , Kids , Im trap , i made that choice , I kept going on , heartbroken , happiness , drama , diary , depressed , crisis , crazy , Biggest Struggle of My Life , babys father , baby mama , Baby , babies , acceptance , 19 and pregnant , 16 and pregnant , 16 and a mother

tpdaniel84

What teenager ever thinks she would be a mother by the age of 17 let alone a mother of three by the time she was 21? A bet a lot of them don't. I know I didn't. At the age of 16, I became just another teenage statistic, a statistical momma. That was in 2001. Back then there were no TV shows of teenage pregnancy glamorizing the epidemic or even TV movies like "The Pregnancy Pact" to scare the thoughts of having babies out of young girls' minds. Those things didn't come along until I was 22 and two kids later. If I would have saw those shows back then, I would have definably gave sex a third and fourth thought .

I was young and naive. You never think it would happen to you. I am so tired of seeing these girls from 16 and Pregnant being thrown all around in the media and being paid major cash to be a statistical momma. I work hard for to take care of the babies I brought into this world and trust me when I say I have sacrificed everything for them. Is it fair that so many teenage parents are struggling and they get to be put on a pedestal for going through the "babymomma" and "babydaddy" drama. I don't think so. Why not try to help these teenage parents be all they can be and be role models for their children. Give them some counseling and some skills training, instead of teaching them to pose for a magazine cover. These are just some thoughts. We all know what sells. So can you expect anything more?

Aug 21
2009

August 21, 2009.

Posted by foreverfaithful in scared

foreverfaithful
I'm Megan and i am 17 years old. All summer i was telling my mom i wanted a baby. Who knew it would come true? My soulmate, Travis Gibson, lives in Florida while i reside in Maryland.  We have maintained and kept a long distance relationship for a year now, but we've liked each other for almost 5. While i went to see him a second time this summer, we had sex. It wasn't just sex, we
Jul 09
2009

Im Pregnant

Posted by EnZo... in scared and excited , scared , nervous , 19 and pregnant

EnZo...
hey....ive decided im going to write a few things every once and a while so that i can look back on it and remember what went on.......so i found out im pregnant i took a test at home and it came up positive....i was all alone and adam wasnt coming home from work for like 3 hours so i was so excited to tell him......so everyday after work now he kisses me hello and rubs my belly and says hello lol
Jul 08
2009

1 ALREADY AND PREGNANT AGAIN.

Posted by AaliyahsMaMa09 in what do i do , scared , one and pregnant again , help , afraid , abortion

AaliyahsMaMa09
Im 19 and i have a beautiful  4 month old baby and i have found out that i am pregnant again and im already 11 1/2 weeks.My bf at first did not want our first child due to our futures and i made the decision to keep her.She is bot of our worlds=] our everything. Well anyways i went to the er the other day for having pains and ended up getting A ultrasound and seen the baby moving and everything
Mar 29
2009

19, pregnant, considering abortion.

Posted by lonelydisaster in second abortion , scared , pregnant while cheating on my bf , in university and pregnant , confused and pregnant , abortion , 2 weeks pregnant , 19 and pregnant

lonelydisaster

Well, where to begin.

I'm 19 years old and currently in my first year of a four year university program. I have a boyfriend, whom I've been dating for almost 7 months, but the past four months have been long distance. On St. Patrick's Day, March 17th, I went out to the bar with a few of my friends, and ended up taking a friend of a friend back to my dorm with me. Since Christmas

Mar 15
2009

depressed and alone

Posted by butterflyzhigh in scared , Hurt , despair , depression , catholic , babys father , alone , afraid

butterflyzhigh
i have a boyfriend right now and I am 3 months pregnant with his child. We are both happy and we are both scared, BAD COMBO ; ) I am way too emotional right now so the mix is bad. I feel him pulling away . I know through God all things are possible so faith is my only strong arm.... anybody kindof like me?
Feb 20
2009

scared

Posted by xoxcassandra in young mum , worrying pregnancy , scared and excited , scared , prego , pregnant at 15 , pregnant , Pregnancy , love , lonely , hormones , diary , confused , comfort , and confused , alone , afraid , 15 sand pregnant , 15 and pregnanant

xoxcassandra

i'm 15 and pregnant, my boyfriends mom wants me to get an abortion i told her that i  want to keep the baby but she keeps saying abortion is the right thing for me it doesnt matter how many times i say i think its wrong she keeps telling me and making me feel bad for not getting one i really don't want one but i dont know what to do should i get one so she doesnt hate me, or

Jan 31
2009

Scared out of my mind...:S

Posted by in scared , nervous , drama , Could I be PREGNANT , confused , afraid , about me , 17

i realize that there's probably millions of posts like this on this site.  but i'm so scared, so nervous, that it really helps just to be able to talk about it.  and it would be even better if i could talk with someone who has gone through the same thing.  i'm a seventeen year old girl, really quite innocent compared to some standards.  i've only had two boyfriends

Jan 22
2009

What do I do now ?

Posted by bucky93 in young , worrying pregnancy , telling parents , teen , scared , pain , Hurt , Could I be PREGNANT , afraid , 15

bucky93
    Hey; I'm only 15 and I think I may be pregant, I have alot of the symptoms like back pain, headaches, feeling sick all the time, really bad heart burn, feeling dizzy and my belly is starting to hurt a little bit and kinda looks like it is getting bigger, so on and I don't know what to do? and if I am I'm very scared because my mom is the type that will kick me out
Dec 20
2008

Parent's Don't Know

Posted by vampireluver in young , unprotected sex , ultrasound , therapy , telling parents , stress , sorrow , single , silent crying , scared , regret , pregnant , lost , lonely , i thought i was looking after myself , Hurt , God , friends , depressed , catholic , Biggest Struggle of My Life , bf , babys father , alone , afraid , 14 and scared and pregnant

vampireluver
I'm 3 months pregnant and my parents don't know.  i think there starting to wonder why I'm gaining weight.  I know I'm pregnant because I've went to a doctor and a therapist. My therapist says I should tell my parents that I'm pregnant but I don't know how to.  They'd be so disapointed in me.  I'm there perfect little girl. It wasn't

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