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Mar 05
2011

Statistical Momma

Posted by tpdaniel84 in young mum , worrying pregnancy , truth about being a young mother , telling parents , teen moms , suprise pregnancy , support change , stress , soul searching , sex , scared and excited , scared , pregnant at 15 , pregnancy teenage , Pregnancy , parents , parenting , pain , one and pregnant again , nervous , My Story , my storey , my side , my life , my experiences , my baby , moving on , mommy , Meant to be , marraige , love , Lifes toughwe can get through , Lifes tough we can get through , life , letting go , Kids , Im trap , i made that choice , I kept going on , heartbroken , happiness , drama , diary , depressed , crisis , crazy , Biggest Struggle of My Life , babys father , baby mama , Baby , babies , acceptance , 19 and pregnant , 16 and pregnant , 16 and a mother

tpdaniel84

What teenager ever thinks she would be a mother by the age of 17 let alone a mother of three by the time she was 21? A bet a lot of them don't. I know I didn't. At the age of 16, I became just another teenage statistic, a statistical momma. That was in 2001. Back then there were no TV shows of teenage pregnancy glamorizing the epidemic or even TV movies like "The Pregnancy Pact" to scare the thoughts of having babies out of young girls' minds. Those things didn't come along until I was 22 and two kids later. If I would have saw those shows back then, I would have definably gave sex a third and fourth thought .

I was young and naive. You never think it would happen to you. I am so tired of seeing these girls from 16 and Pregnant being thrown all around in the media and being paid major cash to be a statistical momma. I work hard for to take care of the babies I brought into this world and trust me when I say I have sacrificed everything for them. Is it fair that so many teenage parents are struggling and they get to be put on a pedestal for going through the "babymomma" and "babydaddy" drama. I don't think so. Why not try to help these teenage parents be all they can be and be role models for their children. Give them some counseling and some skills training, instead of teaching them to pose for a magazine cover. These are just some thoughts. We all know what sells. So can you expect anything more?

Jul 09
2009

Im Pregnant

Posted by EnZo... in scared and excited , scared , nervous , 19 and pregnant

EnZo...
hey....ive decided im going to write a few things every once and a while so that i can look back on it and remember what went on.......so i found out im pregnant i took a test at home and it came up positive....i was all alone and adam wasnt coming home from work for like 3 hours so i was so excited to tell him......so everyday after work now he kisses me hello and rubs my belly and says hello lol
May 26
2009

Am I doing the right thing?????

Posted by lilmara in nervous , lost , heartbroken , boyfriend , and confused

lilmara
i dont know wat i just did i wrote a letter to my mom sayin i want to move out and move in with my babydaddy but i know i broke my moms heart because i still a baby to her but i want to live my own life with my son and soon to be husband but i have a bad feeling about what i did, but also my mom needs to understand she has to let go someday right ? i do love my mom she always there for me and she
Apr 03
2009

I might be pregnant again

Posted by in nervous , afraid

Not what i wanted to hear.... a little as 6 months after having my first children. I haven't missed my period yet, it is late though, so i am not sure.... If i miss my period i am taking the test..... i do want more children but, not this quickly.

If i am pregnant i will not choose adoption  for the child or abortion, i just can't. I have had it rough, and i do fear i am pregnant

Jan 31
2009

Scared out of my mind...:S

Posted by in scared , nervous , drama , Could I be PREGNANT , confused , afraid , about me , 17

i realize that there's probably millions of posts like this on this site.  but i'm so scared, so nervous, that it really helps just to be able to talk about it.  and it would be even better if i could talk with someone who has gone through the same thing.  i'm a seventeen year old girl, really quite innocent compared to some standards.  i've only had two boyfriends

Oct 14
2008

~Scared, Confussed & Worried ~

Posted by confussedlilnikki in telling parents , scared and excited , nervous , More than I can say , Could I be PREGNANT , babys father , and confused , alone , afraid , about me

confussedlilnikki

Hi all

Firstly i just want to say big ups to this website, reading everyone elses story has inspired me to write my own as i know im not the only person going through what i am at the moment!!

Where to start, well right now im actually confussed about wether im pregnant or not, i have sore and darkend nipples, heartburn, constant thirst and constant toilet stops as well as bloating

Mar 29
2008

My First Blog

Posted by Ravenwillow in scared and excited , pregnant , nervous , about me

Ravenwillow
Well hello. I found this website while doing a search for help with teenage pregnancy. I used to look at getting pregnant as a teen being an addition to the world of statistics. I now see it in a new light. This isn't my first pregnany. My first one, I was a rape victim, who had a still born. I am now 17 and past that part of my past. I am in love with a wonderful guy named Hodge.
Nov 13
2007

The New Drama

Posted by in truth about being a young mother , Pregnancy , nervous , My Diary , More than I can say , babys father , about me

Today I told Lamar that I really didn't want to get the abortion and he has been acting so selfish. All he talks about is how it's going to ruin his life. HE doesn't consider my feelings and the risk of an abortion,not to mention the emotional downfall that I'm going to have after I get the abortion(if I get one). He has the nerve to tell me he doesn't want to hurt his current

Oct 23
2007

will i love him...?

Posted by perla_atx in nervous

perla_atx
I'm pregnant this is my second child but im not sure if i will love him as much as i love my boy Joeangel. See im not with joe's dad im with someone else

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