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Mar 04
2012

I love my little man!

Posted by babymumma in single and pregnant , My Diary , my baby , babys father , 15 sand pregnant

babymumma

Im currently 17 weeks 4 days! I know im only 15...so young, but i really do love my unborn baby boy! He's everything to me. Im so happy about this pregnancy, im not sad and miserable...im proud of this. Im strong and im willing to do this on my own if i have to! If my son's father doesnt grow up, he wont have anything to do with his child, my baby will just be MY son! 

I couldnt be happier at school, i have so many great friends, the teachers are fab, and well my mum couldnt be better! She's so strong, for me. She's the main reason im still smiling. I know im going to be an amazing mummy, because my little man comes before everything now, he will always be my main priority. I dont understand why a man wouldnt want to know their child, its crazy. If i ever lost my baby id search for him until the day i died. 

Mar 05
2011

Statistical Momma

Posted by tpdaniel84 in young mum , worrying pregnancy , truth about being a young mother , telling parents , teen moms , suprise pregnancy , support change , stress , soul searching , sex , scared and excited , scared , pregnant at 15 , pregnancy teenage , Pregnancy , parents , parenting , pain , one and pregnant again , nervous , My Story , my storey , my side , my life , my experiences , my baby , moving on , mommy , Meant to be , marraige , love , Lifes toughwe can get through , Lifes tough we can get through , life , letting go , Kids , Im trap , i made that choice , I kept going on , heartbroken , happiness , drama , diary , depressed , crisis , crazy , Biggest Struggle of My Life , babys father , baby mama , Baby , babies , acceptance , 19 and pregnant , 16 and pregnant , 16 and a mother

tpdaniel84

What teenager ever thinks she would be a mother by the age of 17 let alone a mother of three by the time she was 21? A bet a lot of them don't. I know I didn't. At the age of 16, I became just another teenage statistic, a statistical momma. That was in 2001. Back then there were no TV shows of teenage pregnancy glamorizing the epidemic or even TV movies like "The Pregnancy Pact" to scare the thoughts of having babies out of young girls' minds. Those things didn't come along until I was 22 and two kids later. If I would have saw those shows back then, I would have definably gave sex a third and fourth thought .

I was young and naive. You never think it would happen to you. I am so tired of seeing these girls from 16 and Pregnant being thrown all around in the media and being paid major cash to be a statistical momma. I work hard for to take care of the babies I brought into this world and trust me when I say I have sacrificed everything for them. Is it fair that so many teenage parents are struggling and they get to be put on a pedestal for going through the "babymomma" and "babydaddy" drama. I don't think so. Why not try to help these teenage parents be all they can be and be role models for their children. Give them some counseling and some skills training, instead of teaching them to pose for a magazine cover. These are just some thoughts. We all know what sells. So can you expect anything more?

Apr 23
2009

the beauty of the growing belly

Posted by butterflyzhigh in who i am , pregnant at 15 , pregnant , my baby , Lifes tough we can get through , I kept going on , God , forgive , discovery , Dear Mommy , courage , be ready , babys father

butterflyzhigh
talk about a 360! i have been saying fast in my faith and praying enough for my baby's heart and mine combined. My boyfriend has really come around ; ) he rubs my belly every now and again and communicates with me about as much as he can. He has made a significant change . I agreed to marry him and I think that has alot to do with it. I still struggle with the periodic baby blues now and again
Apr 21
2009

Finding out i was expecting.

Posted by j_reyna101 in telling parents , teen moms , scared and excited , Pregnancy , My Story , introduction , Family , confused and pregnant , babys father , Baby , 17

j_reyna101

I had just got back from a trip from vegas. I went for my birthday, to see my Godmother. I turned 17.  The trip was long and hot, and more so i was nausteated the whole while. which was new for me because i never get sick in the stomach. when i went to school that monday veryone began to notice changes, besides the nausea, i was sleeping and wasnt my full energetic self. And one of my teachers

Mar 17
2009

HELP!!!!!!!

Posted by Sapooh2008 in babys father

Sapooh2008
The father of my 2 kids left me when I told him I was pregnant with daughter . But now he wants to come back in the picture he told me if I didn't let him he would go to court to get custody to but the only reason I won't let him see the kids is because he hasn't done not one thing for them since they been in the world. I am 18 and I'm raising to young kids on my own with
Mar 15
2009

depressed and alone

Posted by butterflyzhigh in scared , Hurt , despair , depression , catholic , babys father , alone , afraid

butterflyzhigh
i have a boyfriend right now and I am 3 months pregnant with his child. We are both happy and we are both scared, BAD COMBO ; ) I am way too emotional right now so the mix is bad. I feel him pulling away . I know through God all things are possible so faith is my only strong arm.... anybody kindof like me?
Dec 20
2008

Parent's Don't Know

Posted by vampireluver in young , unprotected sex , ultrasound , therapy , telling parents , stress , sorrow , single , silent crying , scared , regret , pregnant , lost , lonely , i thought i was looking after myself , Hurt , God , friends , depressed , catholic , Biggest Struggle of My Life , bf , babys father , alone , afraid , 14 and scared and pregnant

vampireluver
I'm 3 months pregnant and my parents don't know.  i think there starting to wonder why I'm gaining weight.  I know I'm pregnant because I've went to a doctor and a therapist. My therapist says I should tell my parents that I'm pregnant but I don't know how to.  They'd be so disapointed in me.  I'm there perfect little girl. It wasn't
Dec 19
2008

I never knew, I never thought it would be me

Posted by killabortion in unprotected sex , my baby , More than I can say , miscarraige , lost , lonely , Lifes tough we can get through , ex-bf , babys father , and confused , 14

killabortion

I used to think the most horrible thing a woman could go through was when someone she loved left her, but now I know that it's when she looses something that grows inside of her, a tiny little thing that she created- dies. Especially if it happens to her twice. I never thought I would be the pregnant girl I never thought any of that would ever happen to me, worse yet I didn't even know when it was happening.

 

There I was 14, sad and alone. That night my boyfriend had just broken up with me, I had found out

Oct 14
2008

~Scared, Confussed & Worried ~

Posted by confussedlilnikki in telling parents , scared and excited , nervous , More than I can say , Could I be PREGNANT , babys father , and confused , alone , afraid , about me

confussedlilnikki

Hi all

Firstly i just want to say big ups to this website, reading everyone elses story has inspired me to write my own as i know im not the only person going through what i am at the moment!!

Where to start, well right now im actually confussed about wether im pregnant or not, i have sore and darkend nipples, heartburn, constant thirst and constant toilet stops as well as bloating

Sep 16
2008

I URGE YOU TO WAIT!

Posted by Ch3y_IS_BACK!! in truth about being a young mother , standupgirl , single , silent crying , sex , scared and excited , My Story , my experiences , mommy , miscarraige , love , lost , lonely , Lifes toughwe can get through , i made that choice , hospital , hormones , BAD BAD STUFF , babys father , about me , ababyverybadpregnancy , 19 , 18 and pregnant , 17 pregnant with a girl , 15 and pregnanant

Ch3y_IS_BACK!!

To all the young girls of SUG who are TTC.......I URGE YOU TO WAIT!!

 Some of you may know my story, some may not but when I first joined SUG I was a 19 year old girl who was desperately wanting a baby. ike some of you I cried for one, prayed for one spent so much time looking at baby clothes, pregnancy sites and parenting sites. Hoping and wishing every month my period woud be a no

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