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May 19
2011

Advise please :(

Posted by robb in what do i do , Stressed , Sad , Pregnancy , Hurt , help , heartbroken , catholic , BAD BAD STUFF , abortion

robb

I need help, iv just found out im pregnant to my boyfriend whom i love completly, i was devastated, the problem is he's indian, his parents are planning on him getting an arranged marriage next year and we've always known this. he says no matter wot i do he will support me but i know that if i carry on with this pregnancy his whole family will disown him, ill rip his life apart and he'll be left with nothing. I love him sooo much and i cant bare to do this to him so iv told him and my dad ill have an abortion. my dad thinks its the best option, my partner hates himself for me going through all this and im so torn. i no i cant have this baby, it would cause to much heart ache but the idea of a termination is killing me :( i dont no what to do, i dont even know if ill be strong enough to cope with all this. i really wish i could talk to my mum about it but its better she doesnt no 

Oct 04
2010

Too Early?

Posted by kcrossan2010 in Stressed

kcrossan2010

I am a couple days late on my period. My last period ended on the 8th of Septembeer. Today is the 4th of October and yesterday I had unprotected sex. Is it a possibility I might be pregnant? Or is it way too soon to tell? I was supposed to star my period yesterday, and didn't. What do I do? Am I overreacting?

Oct 24
2009

Perfection

Posted by mrs_tuggle09 in worrying pregnancy , Why did I choose this , who i am , support change , suicidal , Stressed , parents , pain , my experiences , Meant to be , letting go , i thought i was looking after myself , Hurt , heartbroken , drama , depression , depressed , Dear Mommy , breakdown , Biggest Struggle of My Life , BAD BAD STUFF , and confused , alone , abuse , about me

mrs_tuggle09

I want you to know

you got me trapped in a cage,
a cage full of regret and sorrow,
you wont accept me and let me live my life,
so all i got left to do is worry in strife.
how do i know whats gonna happen next,
all you do is read
Oct 16
2009

Stressed Much?

Posted by syddyy.girl in Stressed , sex craving boyfriend , blehh , 16 and pregnant

syddyy.girl

I'm going through the toughest time right now. It seems like I've FINALLY gotten over the morning-sickness phase but life isn't any easier. My boyfriend (&father of the baby) has been bugging me non-stop about making love. He doesn't seem to understand that I just don't want to, not to mention almost everytime I do, I get UTI. Where's the fun in that? So now, he'

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