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Mar 15
2012

yes,i made mistake but at least i made the right decision :)

Posted by sofiawhiubee in Pregnancy , i made that choice , God , ex-bf , bad girl , abortion

sofiawhiubee

..yah im back to tell that im really happy im pregnant.,after i wrote about my last blog later in the afternoon i took pregnancy test. and yes its positive..at first i really want to cry but as i look again the p.t i feel so overwhelmed...that i'm having my first baby..a day after that i gathered all the strength and confidence to tell my aunt. and as expected she really got angry... she so furious! that you cant even imagine how she said those words i never thought she could.they are all blaming me. she told me to have an abortion, but i never agreed..  they did all the things that could push me to go through abortion. they separate me from my boyfriend with no communication at all, they said that even my cousins will suffer if i didn't agree., but i never gave up. i talked to my cousins and they said they'll understand whatever my decision is, and so i continued my pregnancy... well that's not all.. last Saturday I accompanied my cousin Irish, to the hospital to visit her brother.. she told me something i could never imagine.. well she told me this because maybe she knew already that her secret will be safe with me..so here it was.. when we we're in high school after graduation to be exact she got pregnant, with her boyfriend of course . but i don't know  whose guy cause she has so many boyfriends out there,(by the way we're just at the same age we're both 16 that time) when she learned about it, afraid to tell her parents, she had an abortion..she drinks pills every time she feels or thinks she's pregnant..without her boyfriend knowing it.and the shocking part is the time i told my aunt about my pregnancy was the time she was 3month pregnant! so it means she ahead 1 month of me in terms of pregnancy! but the sad part was.. she again did what she must not do.!, she aborted her baby.. she took so many pills to kill her baby..my heart almost broke when i heard that... i cant imagine she's too mean to do that again..well she said that the baby was to his ex bf, and her bf now thought it was his, he never knows the truth..i just felt so pity and sad for her baby..:( the annoying part is that my cousin Irish, always  upset me every time she recalls my mistake about my pregnancy to show how much she's higher than me, that's why my family can't move on and still blames me.they are always proud with Irish.. not knowing what she did was worse than what i did..because at least i kept my baby unlike her, she killed her angel and know she acts like angel to our family like she will never do what disappoints them :'( sucks! i hate her but i keep my promise that i won't tell anyone bout it :( i know God knows i did the right thing:) and no regrets:) i'm 9 weeks pregnant now:) i'm so blessed to have this baby inside me:) TO GOD BE THE GLORY

May 19
2011

Advise please :(

Posted by robb in what do i do , Stressed , Sad , Pregnancy , Hurt , help , heartbroken , catholic , BAD BAD STUFF , abortion

robb

I need help, iv just found out im pregnant to my boyfriend whom i love completly, i was devastated, the problem is he's indian, his parents are planning on him getting an arranged marriage next year and we've always known this. he says no matter wot i do he will support me but i know that if i carry on with this pregnancy his whole family will disown him, ill rip his life apart and he'll be left with nothing. I love him sooo much and i cant bare to do this to him so iv told him and my dad ill have an abortion. my dad thinks its the best option, my partner hates himself for me going through all this and im so torn. i no i cant have this baby, it would cause to much heart ache but the idea of a termination is killing me :( i dont no what to do, i dont even know if ill be strong enough to cope with all this. i really wish i could talk to my mum about it but its better she doesnt no 

Mar 05
2011

Statistical Momma

Posted by tpdaniel84 in young mum , worrying pregnancy , truth about being a young mother , telling parents , teen moms , suprise pregnancy , support change , stress , soul searching , sex , scared and excited , scared , pregnant at 15 , pregnancy teenage , Pregnancy , parents , parenting , pain , one and pregnant again , nervous , My Story , my storey , my side , my life , my experiences , my baby , moving on , mommy , Meant to be , marraige , love , Lifes toughwe can get through , Lifes tough we can get through , life , letting go , Kids , Im trap , i made that choice , I kept going on , heartbroken , happiness , drama , diary , depressed , crisis , crazy , Biggest Struggle of My Life , babys father , baby mama , Baby , babies , acceptance , 19 and pregnant , 16 and pregnant , 16 and a mother

tpdaniel84

What teenager ever thinks she would be a mother by the age of 17 let alone a mother of three by the time she was 21? A bet a lot of them don't. I know I didn't. At the age of 16, I became just another teenage statistic, a statistical momma. That was in 2001. Back then there were no TV shows of teenage pregnancy glamorizing the epidemic or even TV movies like "The Pregnancy Pact" to scare the thoughts of having babies out of young girls' minds. Those things didn't come along until I was 22 and two kids later. If I would have saw those shows back then, I would have definably gave sex a third and fourth thought .

I was young and naive. You never think it would happen to you. I am so tired of seeing these girls from 16 and Pregnant being thrown all around in the media and being paid major cash to be a statistical momma. I work hard for to take care of the babies I brought into this world and trust me when I say I have sacrificed everything for them. Is it fair that so many teenage parents are struggling and they get to be put on a pedestal for going through the "babymomma" and "babydaddy" drama. I don't think so. Why not try to help these teenage parents be all they can be and be role models for their children. Give them some counseling and some skills training, instead of teaching them to pose for a magazine cover. These are just some thoughts. We all know what sells. So can you expect anything more?

Oct 01
2010

what should i do?

Posted by alisha2010 in Pregnancy

alisha2010

so i just found out im pregnant like 2 days ago nd its stressin me out. i hate when people get abortions because i feel like why should yhu pay for your child to be murdered. but now that is a choice i might have to make. me and the father are trying to decide what would be best keep the baby or abort. the reason we have to do this is because he is a lot older than me nd we are scared that if we keep it then my mom will send him t jail. i really dont know what to do i feel like this is one of the hardest things i have ever had to face.  i need suggestions people please help me

Apr 24
2009

my 1st appt.

Posted by j_reyna101 in ultrasound , teen moms , scared and excited , Pregnancy , my baby , friends , Family , babies , 17

j_reyna101
december 1st i remember it so clearly my so very best friend marquise went with me because i was so scared to go by myself. i remember when we walked in and everyone thought we were couple and having baby. i remember playing around and acting like we were. he made me feel so comfortable and when it came time for us to go in and see the doctor, she also though he was the fathe runtil she saw the paperwork
Apr 21
2009

Finding out i was expecting.

Posted by j_reyna101 in telling parents , teen moms , scared and excited , Pregnancy , My Story , introduction , Family , confused and pregnant , babys father , Baby , 17

j_reyna101

I had just got back from a trip from vegas. I went for my birthday, to see my Godmother. I turned 17.  The trip was long and hot, and more so i was nausteated the whole while. which was new for me because i never get sick in the stomach. when i went to school that monday veryone began to notice changes, besides the nausea, i was sleeping and wasnt my full energetic self. And one of my teachers

Mar 28
2009

Just telling my story....

Posted by ilovestephen25 in Pregnancy , Hurt , 14

ilovestephen25

ok i was 14. I wasn't very happy at home, my parents were making me depressed because they were strict, nasty and unloving and i felt very alone. I met this guy, he seemed so perfect to me. He would say the sweetest things to me and for the first time in a very long time i felt loved. Then he started getting a bit weird, saying things like "if you ever try to leave me you wont be able

Feb 20
2009

scared

Posted by xoxcassandra in young mum , worrying pregnancy , scared and excited , scared , prego , pregnant at 15 , pregnant , Pregnancy , love , lonely , hormones , diary , confused , comfort , and confused , alone , afraid , 15 sand pregnant , 15 and pregnanant

xoxcassandra

i'm 15 and pregnant, my boyfriends mom wants me to get an abortion i told her that i  want to keep the baby but she keeps saying abortion is the right thing for me it doesnt matter how many times i say i think its wrong she keeps telling me and making me feel bad for not getting one i really don't want one but i dont know what to do should i get one so she doesnt hate me, or

Feb 03
2009

Help!

Posted by Ez. in Pregnancy

Ez.

Im 18, and around two weeks ago i discovered that im pregnant. After taking a first test which shown negative, around two weeks before.

After going to the doctor and talking with him, i was told that i am 8 weeks pregnant, itll be 9 now.

i knew that i was pregnant, before taking the tests. Two years ago i ended up pregnant after a condom split with my ex,(same symptoms) we always use

Sep 08
2008

An angel and a child

Posted by ProudTeenMom in young , unprotected sex , sex , Pregnancy , My Story , miscarriage , i made that choice , Family , ex-bf , cancer , Biggest Struggle of My Life

ProudTeenMom

Everything began in July of 2005. Everything was going great, I had met the guy of my dreams. But, we had decided a little to soon that sex would be a big part of our relationship. I loved him, so I did as much as I could for him.

It just so happens that in August of 2005, I was put on Yaz by my doctor for my irregular periods and heavy bleeding with very painful cramps. Chirs (the boy of

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