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Mar 05
2011

Statistical Momma

Posted by tpdaniel84 in young mum , worrying pregnancy , truth about being a young mother , telling parents , teen moms , suprise pregnancy , support change , stress , soul searching , sex , scared and excited , scared , pregnant at 15 , pregnancy teenage , Pregnancy , parents , parenting , pain , one and pregnant again , nervous , My Story , my storey , my side , my life , my experiences , my baby , moving on , mommy , Meant to be , marraige , love , Lifes toughwe can get through , Lifes tough we can get through , life , letting go , Kids , Im trap , i made that choice , I kept going on , heartbroken , happiness , drama , diary , depressed , crisis , crazy , Biggest Struggle of My Life , babys father , baby mama , Baby , babies , acceptance , 19 and pregnant , 16 and pregnant , 16 and a mother

tpdaniel84

What teenager ever thinks she would be a mother by the age of 17 let alone a mother of three by the time she was 21? A bet a lot of them don't. I know I didn't. At the age of 16, I became just another teenage statistic, a statistical momma. That was in 2001. Back then there were no TV shows of teenage pregnancy glamorizing the epidemic or even TV movies like "The Pregnancy Pact" to scare the thoughts of having babies out of young girls' minds. Those things didn't come along until I was 22 and two kids later. If I would have saw those shows back then, I would have definably gave sex a third and fourth thought .

I was young and naive. You never think it would happen to you. I am so tired of seeing these girls from 16 and Pregnant being thrown all around in the media and being paid major cash to be a statistical momma. I work hard for to take care of the babies I brought into this world and trust me when I say I have sacrificed everything for them. Is it fair that so many teenage parents are struggling and they get to be put on a pedestal for going through the "babymomma" and "babydaddy" drama. I don't think so. Why not try to help these teenage parents be all they can be and be role models for their children. Give them some counseling and some skills training, instead of teaching them to pose for a magazine cover. These are just some thoughts. We all know what sells. So can you expect anything more?

Aug 06
2010

Different but the same

Posted by Lonely32 in My Story

Lonely32

My issues are sort of different.  I've been in a relationship with the same man off and on for 10 years.  We have a 7 year old child.  And we've lived together for the last three years.  Everything is in our names together.  We are what you consider "common law" married.   I am not very young, and not in school.  I am a working full time.  

My home life hasn't been very happy lately.  I guess it comes with being with someone for so long.  We had been fighting alot, and decided to seperate.  During one of our moments of making up, I ended up getting pregnant.  We were careful-using condoms.  But I still got pregnant.   When I first suspected being pregnant, I took a pregnancy test.  It was negative.  But my cycle never came, so I took another-in fact 3 tests-all positive.  I just sat there and cried.  Here I am preparing to move out on my own, and this happens.  I didn't know what to do and I was afraid to tell him. 

Apr 21
2009

Finding out i was expecting.

Posted by j_reyna101 in telling parents , teen moms , scared and excited , Pregnancy , My Story , introduction , Family , confused and pregnant , babys father , Baby , 17

j_reyna101

I had just got back from a trip from vegas. I went for my birthday, to see my Godmother. I turned 17.  The trip was long and hot, and more so i was nausteated the whole while. which was new for me because i never get sick in the stomach. when i went to school that monday veryone began to notice changes, besides the nausea, i was sleeping and wasnt my full energetic self. And one of my teachers

Mar 31
2009

My Story

Posted by tspeegle09 in young , unprotected sex , single , My Story , my baby , love , drama , confused and pregnant , confused , college , Christian , catholic , boyfriend , birth , alone , afraid , acceptance

tspeegle09

I was a Junior in college when I found out I was pregnant -- just over 20 years old, with my entire future ahead of me.  I had been seeing the father of my baby for almost 3 years.  I was very deeply in love with him and at one time I thought that we would spend the rest of our lives together.  But our relationship had always been tumultuous.  He was emotionally unstable and

Mar 05
2009

My Story-Part One

Posted by LilysDoubleTrouble in rape , My Story , miscarriage , 14

LilysDoubleTrouble

Well I decided to post my story though it is going to be hard and painful, Im going to post it in two parts. From ages 0-14 then 15 untill know.

Well my story starts like everyone elses with my birth...

I was born in Arizona to a loving mom and dad. We lived the ideal life. My mom was a pediatrian and my dad was a nuroligist .My parents had tried for four years to have a baby. My life

Jan 27
2009

Sometimes Love Hurts

Posted by love_is_never_easy08 in My Story

love_is_never_easy08

To be very honest, I cannot believe I am writing this. However, I need to share my story with someone because I constantly feel like I am hiding who I am. I feel like I need to be with people who know how I feel and I guess this site is the only thing I have found that seems good enough. So here is my story. I really hope it helps someone in some way and might make someone's decision a little

Jan 22
2009

My Story

Posted by teenmother in My Story

teenmother

I finally decided to write my story,  i will do my best with my english..

When I was 16  was constantly raped by a closer person, after a few months I got pregnant, and he made me say that the father was my ex bf, who was a very good person but I wasnt having sex with him. He made me do that by threatening me for almost 3 months that I stay in my hometown. My

Nov 13
2008

My Story

Posted by Sapooh2008 in My Story

Sapooh2008
Hi My name is Satasha and i am 18 yrs old and i am a mother of two i have a little boy named Jamier and a little girl named Je'Zariah and i am a single mom i got kicked out of my house when i got pregnant with my daughter my bf left after i told him i was pregnant again i am struggling but i am doing the best i can for me and my kids my son right now is going through the terrible twos
Oct 31
2008

an update on my situation.

Posted by jennlynn in silent crying , My Story , Lifes tough we can get through , confused , Biggest Struggle of My Life , bf , about me , 18 and pregnant

jennlynn
so i went from being in a situation with 2 possible dads, now to knowing the real father .. i have an amniocentesis done a while back now, and it was a big relief to finally know who the dad was, and it turned out to be my ex bf of 3 years, at first he seemed okay, a bit.. it wasnt like he hated the thought, and then all of a sudden he turned on me, i remained friends with the other guy and now
Sep 16
2008

I URGE YOU TO WAIT!

Posted by Ch3y_IS_BACK!! in truth about being a young mother , standupgirl , single , silent crying , sex , scared and excited , My Story , my experiences , mommy , miscarraige , love , lost , lonely , Lifes toughwe can get through , i made that choice , hospital , hormones , BAD BAD STUFF , babys father , about me , ababyverybadpregnancy , 19 , 18 and pregnant , 17 pregnant with a girl , 15 and pregnanant

Ch3y_IS_BACK!!

To all the young girls of SUG who are TTC.......I URGE YOU TO WAIT!!

 Some of you may know my story, some may not but when I first joined SUG I was a 19 year old girl who was desperately wanting a baby. ike some of you I cried for one, prayed for one spent so much time looking at baby clothes, pregnancy sites and parenting sites. Hoping and wishing every month my period woud be a no

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