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May 19
2011

Advise please :(

Posted by robb in what do i do , Stressed , Sad , Pregnancy , Hurt , help , heartbroken , catholic , BAD BAD STUFF , abortion

robb

I need help, iv just found out im pregnant to my boyfriend whom i love completly, i was devastated, the problem is he's indian, his parents are planning on him getting an arranged marriage next year and we've always known this. he says no matter wot i do he will support me but i know that if i carry on with this pregnancy his whole family will disown him, ill rip his life apart and he'll be left with nothing. I love him sooo much and i cant bare to do this to him so iv told him and my dad ill have an abortion. my dad thinks its the best option, my partner hates himself for me going through all this and im so torn. i no i cant have this baby, it would cause to much heart ache but the idea of a termination is killing me :( i dont no what to do, i dont even know if ill be strong enough to cope with all this. i really wish i could talk to my mum about it but its better she doesnt no 

Oct 24
2009

Perfection

Posted by mrs_tuggle09 in worrying pregnancy , Why did I choose this , who i am , support change , suicidal , Stressed , parents , pain , my experiences , Meant to be , letting go , i thought i was looking after myself , Hurt , heartbroken , drama , depression , depressed , Dear Mommy , breakdown , Biggest Struggle of My Life , BAD BAD STUFF , and confused , alone , abuse , about me

mrs_tuggle09

I want you to know

you got me trapped in a cage,
a cage full of regret and sorrow,
you wont accept me and let me live my life,
so all i got left to do is worry in strife.
how do i know whats gonna happen next,
all you do is read
Sep 07
2009

dont cry for louie he wouldnt cry for you...

Posted by Sunflowers in Hurt

Sunflowers

I am 27 i am 5 weeks pregnant, its a little complicated, i have know thi sguy for a while over a year as friends we decided to see if we can pursue something i had a great holiday with me he was great to me until the end the last week i fell pregnant i was on the pill. Towards the end of my visit he wasnt treating me with the same enthusiasm as before.

I went back home asked him how

Jul 22
2009

my story..abuse. please read.

Posted by amberbabe in Hurt , hospital , afraid , abuse

amberbabe

i want to share my story with other women, in hopes of maybe helping someone out there that has or is being abused. or just needs advice on what to do, or make them open their eyes.

im amber, and im 19 years old. im five months pregnant with a little girl..
-may,i found out that was pregnant. to be honest i was not too excited about the thought of being a mommy, and

Jul 13
2009

i miss you really really bad...

Posted by teenmother in my baby , lost , Hurt

teenmother

i miss you really bad... when i read stories i never knew the extensity of that frase

 today you should be 2 months and i should be verry happy, im verry proud of you. I always remember the time that we had together i remember each day, each little thing i had with you, when you were inside me was amazing i only wanted to meet you, to see your little face, to hold you, i wanted&

Mar 28
2009

Just telling my story....

Posted by ilovestephen25 in Pregnancy , Hurt , 14

ilovestephen25

ok i was 14. I wasn't very happy at home, my parents were making me depressed because they were strict, nasty and unloving and i felt very alone. I met this guy, he seemed so perfect to me. He would say the sweetest things to me and for the first time in a very long time i felt loved. Then he started getting a bit weird, saying things like "if you ever try to leave me you wont be able

Mar 15
2009

depressed and alone

Posted by butterflyzhigh in scared , Hurt , despair , depression , catholic , babys father , alone , afraid

butterflyzhigh
i have a boyfriend right now and I am 3 months pregnant with his child. We are both happy and we are both scared, BAD COMBO ; ) I am way too emotional right now so the mix is bad. I feel him pulling away . I know through God all things are possible so faith is my only strong arm.... anybody kindof like me?
Mar 13
2009

Don't want to live anymore

Posted by Evangeline in Why did I choose this , Want , soul searching , sorrow , Sad , regret , pain , Hurt , heartbroken , grief , depression , death , breakdown , Biggest Struggle of My Life , abortion

Evangeline

God knows I don't know what to do anymore. As soon as everything starts going right I have to mess it up and set myself back months. I was coping really well and getting past the depression, but I just can't do this anymore. I can't play pretend and go back to living everyday going through the motions. I keep torturing myself, wanting a baby with such ferocity that I want to kill myself

Jan 22
2009

What do I do now ?

Posted by bucky93 in young , worrying pregnancy , telling parents , teen , scared , pain , Hurt , Could I be PREGNANT , afraid , 15

bucky93
    Hey; I'm only 15 and I think I may be pregant, I have alot of the symptoms like back pain, headaches, feeling sick all the time, really bad heart burn, feeling dizzy and my belly is starting to hurt a little bit and kinda looks like it is getting bigger, so on and I don't know what to do? and if I am I'm very scared because my mom is the type that will kick me out
Dec 20
2008

Parent's Don't Know

Posted by vampireluver in young , unprotected sex , ultrasound , therapy , telling parents , stress , sorrow , single , silent crying , scared , regret , pregnant , lost , lonely , i thought i was looking after myself , Hurt , God , friends , depressed , catholic , Biggest Struggle of My Life , bf , babys father , alone , afraid , 14 and scared and pregnant

vampireluver
I'm 3 months pregnant and my parents don't know.  i think there starting to wonder why I'm gaining weight.  I know I'm pregnant because I've went to a doctor and a therapist. My therapist says I should tell my parents that I'm pregnant but I don't know how to.  They'd be so disapointed in me.  I'm there perfect little girl. It wasn't

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