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Jan 26
2012

I am so tired!

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sweetgirl104

Well I'm now 4 months and I just found out im having a girl :D! I chose the name Arsin for her, her daddy doesnt even want to know about her, i  fear he never will. He already has a daughter and sees her all the time, so why should Arsin be any different? I'm so tired of his crap, why cant he just grow up and admitt to his mistake like I did? I hope one day he asks to see her, and you know what im going to let him so he can see what hes missed out on! But one fear I have is that Arsin will make all the same mistakes I did, and I don't want this for her!

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written by Maria Birchley , February 21, 2012
this baby is a blessing not a mistake....never regret your beautiful baby...trust in God and His Divine mercy...He will see you through if you do...He loves all people and will always forgive those sorry people and turn to His mercy and forgiveness. TRUST IN GOD...if only the world knew how merciful and loving He is.
God Bless you and your darling baby...don't worry about the father...just pray for Him smilies/smiley.gifsmilies/smiley.gif
xoxoxox
ShaFlournoy
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written by ShaFlournoy , January 27, 2012
dont be afraid to tell him about the baby because whether he like it or not yalls daughter is coming and if he chooses not to be in her life you go on anad do what you have to do to better yourself and for the sake of your baby
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written by Meg11 , January 26, 2012
I used to use the word mistake when talking about my oldest daughter, She heard me use it one day and I saw the pain it caused her....I assured her that she is NOT a mistake and from that day forward I have made it a purpose in my heart to say things like, I made a poor choice but rather than getting a punishment I got you instead and God allowed me to learn a hard lesson while still having a blessing in disguise! You will go through your ups and downs, I have been there and have many more to go through myself! I am here for you however and I really hope to connect and help guide you through this path...I am a little further down the road than you are and I can help you avoid those pot holes <3 Much Love....Meg, meg@standupgirl.com
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written by Meg11 , January 26, 2012
Hey there....Congrats on your sweet little girl, just WAIT till she is in your arms smilies/smiley.gif I just want to encourage you in something....You refer to your daughter as a "mistake"....She is NOT a mistake....making a poor decision that lead to your pregnancy may have been a mistake or a regret but NEVER allow yourself to look at, talk about or refer to your sweet little gift as a mistake! We make mistakes as people but God NEVER makes mistakes and He has allowed this incredible blessing into your life
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