OK HERES MY STORY IM 16 YEARS OLD AND ABOUT HM.......... LIKE 19 WEEKS PREGNANT I DUNNO I WANT 2 KEEP THE BABY BUT THE FATHER WANTS ME 2 GET AN ABORTION AND I DONT KNOW WHAT 2 DO WILL ANY ONE HELP ME

It is not ur boyfriends decision it is all up to you since u have the living life growing inside u yes it will be scary at first but it is something that will only get better with time if u do take my advice and keep the baby but ur bf wants nothing to do with u or the baby then u shouldnt want such a negative person around some guys just dont want to grow up and have responsibilities. im sure u can do just be strong!!

the question is,what do you want to do...he obviously does not want to take responsibilty..Do you???this is a big step...think about your desiscion.good or bad,it is going to change your life forever.


PS...you will remember

wish you the best,
Bill L.

hey girl you should keep it no baby deserves to get killed i know deep down inside of you that you wont that baby so hear your heart you can do it i love you you now

When it comes down to it, it is your decision. Weigh the good and the bad, think about your body and your future. What do you want - really, really want? This is a HUGE decision, involving human lives (yours and your boyfriend's and your baby's). Make it wisely. Think it through. Good luck. Email me if you need someone to talk to.

Well... as for the abortion.. you are alittle late in your pregnancy and very few places will do the surgery this late.. I dont even think they do them after 20 weeks. Don't let your Bf pressure you into doing something you know is wrong. Think with your heart. If you are sure you cannot raise a baby then consider adoption as a means to allow you to continue life as usual and allow your baby inside of you to live. Im 18 and about 16 weeks pregnant and I am sooo glad I decided against abortion. At first my boyfriend didn't want to talk to me or believe I was pregnant but eventually he came around and we have decided to be a family and raise our child. Chances are your Bf is just as scared as you are and abortion seems like the easy way out. Trust me it's not. When I was 16 I became pregnant also and I will be forever emotionally scarred by my choice to have an abortion. It was my worst mistake.. . playing God and selfishly taking a life and a gift God put inside of me. I have never been the same after that. I would never ever encourage abortion in any situation .. EVER.. if you have time one day go online and check out some pics of aborted babies.. especially this late in your pregnancy . I guarantee you it will change your life.. Most of all do what you know is right . As hard as it may seem now.. even with your Bf pressuring you .. it is ultimately up to you and nobody can force you into anything you dont wanna do.. I wish the best for you and hopefully your baby... God bless