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i need your help girlies!! 7 years, 1 month ago #624

  • Lidz
Ok right here go's. I took a pregnancy test last Sunday(its now saturday) and it had a very very faint negative line on it. i mean it was so feint that you could hardly see it. i just looked at it again (gross that i still have it but i havnt been able to find anywhere to bin it) and now the negative line is very clear but theres also a very very feint line making it into a plus... is it possible that it could be the right outcome now instead of last sunday? coz over the past couple of weeks ive been feeling really really sick and tired, ive been going to the toilet loads more than normal, Ive been dizzy and feel really different, my stomach feels bloated and firmer than normal, ive been constantly hungry and ive been getting headaches and stomach cramps. im only 16 and my boyfriends crapping himself! he's only 15.

I need your help girlies!!

Luv lidz xx

Re:i need your help girlies!! 7 years, 1 month ago #630

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the farther along in pregnancy you are the more homones your body makes. Each pregnancy test detects a certain amount of hormones. If you took a pg test to soon you may not have had enough hormones to get a positive result. hope this helps.





Re:i need your help girlies!! 7 years, 1 month ago #731

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Yes, your symptoms tell me you're pregnant. Take another test, get a pee test and pray you're not. But, don't get an abortion whatever you do. You're too young to know what is right or wrong when it comes to that and it is definitely wrong. Hardening of your abdomen down there is your uterus growing so it's cool. bye!

Re:i need your help girlies!! 7 years, 1 month ago #741

  • Jessica
I thought I was pregnant at 17 and it turns out I wasn't, but I am now at 22. The best time to take a test when the hormones are weak are the first pee in the morning b/c the hormones will be concentrated more heavily (this is what I have heard). Take another test. If you're having symptoms it probably won't matter when you take the test (just make sure you're in a \"safe\" place if you should feel the urge to cry). I took mine at night this time. I have always heard you can get a false negative, but not a false positive.

It's really stressful so prepare yourself for the worst (whichever outcome will be the worst for you). Make sure you find a woman to talk to; a woman you can trust (EVEN if it's a hotline). There are a lot of options for you. Even at such a young age there are groups, medical aid, financial aid (especially if you finish high school and want to go to college as a young mother), parenting classes - there's no end to the help that people are so willing to give. Don't be afraid to ask.

My best friend got pregnant @ 16 and kept the baby. She's doing well and is a good mom, but 15 years ago there wasn't a lot of aid for teen moms. She was forced into marriage with the father and they divorced. Don't let yourself get forced into marriage with this guy if you really don't want to be.

Even if you don't think you can take care of this baby there's adoption. Just think it through carefully before you do it. The thought of giving your baby to another family may haunt you.

Abortion - don't make it an option. I just suggest this because it is guaranteed to haunt you for the rest of your life. You would be killing your very own child. The regret is just not worth it.

If you want to talk...let me know. There is a lot of relief just from talking to another woman who is going through the pregnancy at the same time. Don't give up. You're a bright young woman and I am glad you could come online and talk about this; it shows a lot of courage.

Re:i need your help girlies!! 7 years, 1 month ago #766

  • prettymommy
sometimes pms symptoms can mask pregnancy. and hpt results should never be read more than 30 min after taking the test. my advise .... take an early response test....and if your period doesn't come within a week, take another test, if your period is more than 7 days late and you're still getting negative results you should see your doctor to determine the cause of irregularity.
hope this helps
good luck

Re:i need your help girlies!! 7 years, 1 month ago #789

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I agree with you about taking the UA or PT in the morning. That is the best time and when urin is most concentrated. That's what I was told to do and then come back the next day. I went in on a Monday, brought my urine in on Tuesday, and Wednesday I found out I was pregnant. I prayed I wasn't but knew I was. I didn't need a UA to tell me I was.

Good advice about talking to a woman even on a hotline. I had tons of info and support brochures. Believe me I needed all the help I could get and I went after it and it also miraculously came to me, too. God was helping me.

I also thought about adoption. The father was very selfish and demanding and said he would not let that happen. Nonetheless I have sacrificed myself and became the parent. I did it relunctantly so it took me some time to love my daughter emotionally, not just physically. I had a close physical connection, but I put my emotions aside so I could figure out if adoption was for me.

Abortion will haunt a woman and she will feel guilty someday if not that day that it is performed. Thank you for speaking so strongly and so well. You have given great advice for this young woman and I appreciate it very much. I am 22, also, but got pregnant at 20 and had my baby at 21. What are the circumstances surrounding your pregnancy? I was unmarried and now a single parent. I was on my way to a highly successful life and that is why I seriously thought about adoption. I couldn't provide and I thougth her father wasn't good enough to take care of her and his family was not the greatest of caliber. Anyway, thank you.
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