Hi Amanda,
I'm a little confused by your question. How old are you? If you are already pregnant, then I would encourage you to have the child. Babies are great, but are also a lot of work and will mean lots of changes and you will have to grow up much faster than you should. If you are not pregnant, then I would not reccommend trying to get pregnant until you are in a stable, loving, and committed relationship. Also until both you and your partner are prepared for the responsibilities that come with parenthood. I would consider waiting for sex, especially if you are very young. However if you decide to be sexually active, then birth control will increase the chances of preventing pregnancy.
Kate
