I,m 20 and I just found out yersterday that I'm 4 weeks pregnant, my boyfriend is very supportive about it. But my real problem are my parents I don't now how to brake the news to them since they are going throw a tuff time right now. Im so scared I dont even what to deal with this anymore.

Nya,

I'm not sure how to break the news to your parents. They might be upset at first, but I bet they will come around and be supportive. I would wait until a good opening and opportunity to talk to them, but don't wait too long or chances are they will feel even more hurt and upset that you didn't tell them sooner. I understand how scared you feel about telling them and facing them, trust me. However the sooner you get it over with and let them know the sooner you can break free from the worry and dread of telling them. Hang in there, and good luck.

Kate

I dont have much advice I went through a pretty tough time my best suggestion I can give is if there is a hard timeall around why dont you just ask to have a family meeting or talk it over with them with your boyfriend there for suport. if they beleive in you they should support you if not you always have a friend here!

Girl, all i can say is 12 months ago I was in the same postion, but believe me when I say the father takes care of fools and babes. Meaning, do what you feel is right, your parents may be going through a tuff time, but a baby may bring them the love of faith that they need to get through this tuff time. Since pregnancy is actually 10 months, prioritze, and try and relax. Children don't need extremely expensive things, they just need love. Formula, and papmers are things that can be supplied by programs that are available to you. If you have a Baby shower ask for your friends to throw you a diaper shower. I did, and I just went out and brought my first case of pampers, and my daughter is 7 months old now. Buy bulk, go to BJ's, Sams Club, and/or Costco. Clip coupons. But most of all try and stock up now while the baby is not here and you have that extra cash. Things will work out! Trust ME, if not me Trust YOURSELF, your a woman, and You are made for this. The father would not have blessed you with the ability to have children if he knew you wouldn't do exactly what your child needs you to do. May JAH bless all of your endeavors.

Girl, all i can say is 12 months ago I was in the same postion, but believe me when I say the father takes care of fools and babes. Meaning, do what you feel is right, your parents may be going through a tuff time, but a baby may bring them the love of faith that they need to get through this tuff time. Since pregnancy is actually 10 months, prioritze, and try and relax. Children don't need extremely expensive things, they just need love. Formula, and papmers are things that can be supplied by programs that are available to you. If you have a Baby shower ask for your friends to throw you a diaper shower. I did, and I just went out and brought my first case of pampers, and my daughter is 7 months old now. Buy bulk, go to BJ's, Sams Club, and/or Costco. Clip coupons. But most of all try and stock up now while the baby is not here and you have that extra cash. Things will work out! Trust ME, if not me Trust YOURSELF, your a woman, and You are made for this. The father would not have blessed you with the ability to have children if he knew you wouldn't do exactly what your child needs you to do. May JAH bless all of your endeavors.

Hey let me know how it goes cause i have to tell my family too... I dont know how to tell them either but i'll accept any and all suggestions!

Chereh<br><br>Post edited by: Julie, at: 2005/10/18 02:18