hey chantal. your not alone there are many girls who have sex at 12. im not going to judge you, because i lost my virgintiy when i was 11, but i am going to be your friend and give you advice. the reason why i had sex so young, was because i was looking for love, that i didnt get from the foster homes i stayed in. if you are having sex for that reason, stop. it will only lower your self esteem and make you fall into a pattern of feeling worthless to everyone. i now, totally regret loosing my virginity so young. it just caused me pain. i became pregnant at 13 but was beaten up by the man who said he loved me and misscaried. i am 18 i just had twin boys this past april. and now am expecting another child. and even though i married the father of my children, i still have this baggage that will never go away. i dont want you to go through that. once again im not judging you, please dont take this that way. i just want to tell you how having sex so young affected me. i am here for you, so update me and let me know if you are pregnant or not. i will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. -Vera<br><br>Post edited by: Julie, at: 2005/08/01 22:04
