Hi my name is Elie and I'm 18 years old. I know that I'm just really really paranoid, but I'm getting ready to start college and being pregnant can really ruin my life. I had sex for the first time with my boyfriend of almost 2 years. We were using a condom and we were very careful. I don't even know if we really had sex because my bf was so scared to hurt me that he didn't go in all the way and didn't ejaculate. When he gave up he made himself ejaculate with the condom on into the condom and we both felt the condom and it was completely dry on the outside.
I was really relieved because since the condom was dry, that meant that it didn't break, but today (2 days after) I started spotting in the morning and now I'm scared again. Please share any ideas or advice, I would really appreciate it. Thank you so much in advance.

From the sound of things, your not pregnant. Just menstrating. Was it about that time? I think it was just your body, not a baby. But I'm no expert. I meen you wouldn't feel it that quick anyway... Its ok Have fun in college its so much better than highschool.

I would say chances are you probably aren't pregnant. Probably just bleeding from the intercourse. Personal question....were you a virgin when you had intercourse with him? if you were then it was probably just irritation. If i think back after the first time i had sex i also had some bleeding and it scared me too. turned out it was just from the heiman being broken. if your still unsure and are unsettled then go get a pregnancy test.