um i'm 16 and i'm pregnant....I dont know what to do! The father of my baby wants nothing to do with me because I am wrecking his life!I'm 3 months pregnant and im scared half to death! I am e-mailing u because I was wondering if someone can tell me what to do if everythings going to be alright?
Tiff

If your parents are there for you and you have support from your family you will be ok. Im 15 and just had my baby about 2 weeks ago. He doesn't need to be in your life, you'll get a big satisfaction of knowing that you can do it on your own. I encourage you to please choose against abortion.

First off, you do not need to be stresing over this guy, stres will only birng harm to youand your baby. Second, you nedd to seek medical attention if you have not done so already. 3rd, everything will be ok, there are alot of support groups that will give you the attention and are that you and your baby will need. your family should be there to support you. remember what doenst't kill you will only make you stronger.

I THINK THAT EVERYTHING WILL BE OK EVEN IF THE FATHER WANTS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU ITS OK YOU CAN DO AS LONG AS YOU HAVE A PARENT OR FRIEND ON YOUR SIDE THEN YOU CAN DO I BELIEVE THAT YOU CAN EVERYTHING IS GONNA BE OK I DONT KNOW YOU BUT I KNOW YOU CAN DO I'D LIKE TO KEEP IN TOUCH WITH YOU BECAUSE I CAN BE A FRIEND TO YOU I CAN BE SOME ONE TO TALK TO.

JANA.

i know things may seem hopeless right now, but keep your head up. things will get better, even though that seems impossible right now. your not alone. many woman have gone through the same situation as you and they have made it. its your time to stand up and be a strong woman, with or without your boyfriend. just know that you have probably all of the girls on this websites support and we will be cheering you on. you will be in my thoughts and prayers. stay strong!- Vera<br><br>Post edited by: Julie, at: 2005/08/01 21:56

I think you need to sit down and talk to the father of your baby. He helped make the child so therefore he is legally responsible for that child. But it did not ruin his life, because he help out with it. It is not a horrible thing, a child is a blessing from God. I'm 16 and pregnant too, it took me about a month to realize that a child is a real blessing. What ever you do, just think about it.