Hey there, Sadly that is normally what you get from "family planning clinics" They are more about birth control/contraceptives and not so much about your health....I think you should go to your regular doctor, get a blood test and also schedule an ultrasound, if you are in fact not pregnant then you need to find out why you are feeling the way you are, why your stomach is bloated/larger than normal and why your periods have been messed up, you could have cysts on your ovaries or something else to that effect, I am not a doctor but I feel that I have given you "more medical advice" than the family planning lady did, honey go to the doctor because you only have one body in this life and you need to take care of it, listen to it, if something doesn't seem right then you need to be seen....please let me know what you find out....Love Meg