well you have a lot of questions, jjaja
lets see what can i answer i hope it help you
1. i gain about 28 pounds;
2. i was 16yrs old with my first;
3. i wait like 2-3 weeks;
4. i just called them to my room and say "im preg and i dont the father";
5. i was ay schooljust the fisrts months, and all asked me a lot of things i just ignore them, becuase i fel like i didnt have to explain them, now im in school to and i enjoy that my friends touch my belly, but if they ask something i ignore them too;
6. with my first my belly showed at 5 1/2 or so;
7. i did change my diet, but that was because before i didnt eat anithing healthy;
8. well my period wasnt late, but i fel my body kind of wear, so i took a home test like a week before my period and it was positive;
9. abortion has never pass tru my mind, no even with my second
10. i think you should take things easy and slowly, and if you really want to be preg i hope you the best...