Here's a little history about me to start off with.. I'm an only child & my parents except me to be their "perfect little angel" I have to get great grades & stay focused on positive things. They don't expect me to mess up. I've only had two serious relationships. I've also been a victim of criminal sexual conduct
I have been going out with my current boyfriend for 5 months. We love eachother very much. Him & I are only 15 though. We have our whole lives ahead of us but we recently had sex. Twice. Once without a condom. Then the second time we had one but only used it for part of the time. I don't know what came over us or what we were thinking. I know what I did was wrong. I've been very nervous. I'm not sure how to tell if I am pregnant or not. I don't really want to tell my parents about anything because I know they would not trust me or let me see him again. What should I do???

Hey. You sound like a pretty smart girl, except for one thing! I would be a total hypocrite though for saying how dumb it is to not use a condom , because I just found out that i'm pregnant as a result of not using them .
My advice to you would be to stay clam, don't rush into telling your parents yet. Try and figure out your menstrual cycles. When was your last period? What day did you have sex on? Did he ejaculate inside of you? There are only about 5-7 days in a month that a woman is fertile. So, let's hope the day you had sex didn't fall on one of those days. In a normal menstrual cycle, a woman ovulates about 2 weeks after the first day of her last period. You're most fertile 2-3 days before ovulating, the day of ovulation, and about a day after. ( the egg only survives for about 24 hours).
It might help you to look at a calendar and count 2 weeks from the first day of your period, and then see if the day you had sex fell into that week. If it didn't, you can probably stop worrying. If it did, the only thing you can do is wait and see if you get your next period.
Good luck, i hope every thing works out for you.

This is just another thing that happened...I got my period that same night that we did things. does that mean anything? like i definately will be, or will not be pregnant?

You got your period that night after you had sex? Pheeww. That is good! You couldn't be pregnant than.

are you sure? i'm just so scared! like i don't know much about this kind of stuff & i don't see how you can tell if someone is or not. this is just so stressful!

MsWorrysome don't worry so much. I was also the perfect little angel until my mother found weed in my bag. I was actually relieved afterward that I could just be me and didn't have to live up to false expectations anymore. You made mistakes, that you can repent of and be forgiven for. If you are pregnant please keep your baby! I beg you. having seen abortion photos and videos, I am in a state of despair. I have not had an abortion, I kept my little boy, but I feel such a deep loathing and mourning and grieving for all the millions of babies down the drain. (I just want to adopt them all, I want to love them and hold them).
You are old enough! You are mature enough! God gives you the motherly instincts once your baby is born! I'm sure if you have a little one, he will have much fun with you. I'm sure your parents would love to keep their grandchild. I don't think they want their grandchild dismembered (ripped, torn and sucked apart)! You are not the first teenage pregnancy in the world! Your situation is quite common - your parents thinking you're a little angel and all. And who says you're not?
If you are pregnant then it is YOUR baby! No one elses! In YOUR body!
Remember God knows your baby and your baby knows God. Don't kill your little one just to satisfy your parents false view of you! Let them know who you are. A close relative of mine's father found her diary with all her sexual secrets! She's fine today, he's fine today...It all blows over. Sex is a beautiful God-given thing, it should just be had within marriage. When you are older you will deeply regret having given a darn about how your parents might have reacted. PLEASE KEEP YOUR PRECIOUS BABY. He has nothing to do with the problems you might think you have. He is just excited to be alive, anticipating meeting you! He is not a blob, he is a human being. My baby was always Levi, from the moment of conception he was Levi. He was always human! You have a miracle in side of you if you are pregnant. Pregnancy is not a terrible thing that people must fret about, it is a joyous celebration of life. God is creating a living breathing walking talking little person inside of you. Who has the right to stop God's work? If your parents are Christian they'll know about forgivess and that God loves His little babies! They'll know that guilt and shame is washed away in the blood of Christ! May God bless you and be with you during this time. May his angels guide you on the right paths. In every hard testing He makes a way out for you and that way is not abortion!
"In all your ways acknowledge him,

And he will direct your paths."
- Proverbs 3:6.