can i be pregnant if the guy didnt "go" in or around me, just played around? im freaking out here!!!!

NO. You cant. he has to "go" in or around you. The around part is rare but possible. So, i wouldnt worry unless he went inside of you.

most likely not.

Well, it could happen, that's how my grandma got pregnant when she was 16. But it is not very likely. Try not to freak out, but if your period is late than take a HPT and tell us what you find out, ok?

Not to worry hun its not likely to happen so dont stress me and hubby never get pregnant like that!

No, the sperm has to be able to travel inside of you, it will die with air exposure.