Hi, my name is ALyssa!
im 16 years old, im almost sure im pregnant!
im gonna take a test soon, just scared!
but how do i tell my parents!
there gonna hit the fan!!!!
i cant write a letter cause well were always together!
I love my boyfriend and he and his friends are very supportive!
i just need to find a way to tell my parents.

P.S.
i was raped a while back and they still havent gotten over that!


erg what do i do?

Tell them calmly and responsibly. Tell them your plans for the future. For example: \"Mom, I just found out that I'm pregnant. I've thought it through and I'm planning on keeping the baby. I've made a doctor's appointment for the 27th of this month and I'm going to start working so I can pay for the visits.\" Tell them that you're open to suggestions but ultimately you're going to make the final decisions. Good Luck!

Hi Alyssa!
Yikes, sounds like you have quite the situation.
Take the test, ok? You don't have to worry about how to tell them until you know for sure.
Actually, you might still want to consider writing them a letter and then leaving for a few hours to give them time to get out their first emotions.
Sometimes what helps is to say things like how scared you are and stuff like that.
If you don't want to write a letter you could ask to go out to supper with them and then tell them at the restaurant (maybe write them a note and have them read it there) because they can't act TOO bad in a restaurant.
No matter how you decide to tell them, I promise that you will feel ten times better when they know and you don't have to hide it.
But like I said, no need to worry about it until you take the test.
Good luck, hun! Let us know how it goes!

P.S. That must have been so hard! You said that your parents still haven't gotten over it, but how are you doing?

u can do what i did . i found out i was preg my bf dropped me off at my mom where my mom n dad was and i went in layed the paper in front of them and left. then 2 days later i lost my baby and the 2 monthes later i got preg angian anf my sis told them and know m 3 monthes along

Telling the parents is hard.... Im 18 and it was hard for me to tell my parents because the babies dad hit me and things and made life hell really... So one day i built up the courage went to work came home and then sat down and told my parents well dad really mum already new... He asked me if i was gettin rid of it and i said no and then asked who the father was and he got very angry and told me to get out of the room... i went to my room and cried for ages.... He didnt speak to me for nearly a week i think it was... But no matter how u tell them they generally always come around ... Your carrying there grandchild and the thought of that is amazing even if at first they are upset... They are only tryin to look out for you an do whats in your best interest... I hope this helps you choose a way too tell them.
Best of luck
Angela

dont stress too much when you dont even know you ARE pregnant.
I had that feeling of yes i will buy a test coz i was certain i was up the duff and nup..came back and bit me. It was a negative.