Am 21 and i had an episode with my boyfriend and he brushed his \"manhood\" down towards my Virgina.Its been almost a month now since it happened and that was March 24 2008.After the incident,i was confused because that was my first time and i thought i was pregnant.Now am more confused because i dont know if his semen got into me.My fears went away when i had my monthly period normal.I didn't have any spot of blood like they say when you are pregnant.It came like always with my normal menstrual cramps.Now my sister told me she had a dream about me being pregnant and since then i have been thinking about it again.i found out about this site some few days ago and when i read about symptoms of pregnancy i got worried.I was sick some weeks ago.Am an asthmatic patient and when i had the attack,it came with a fever.I went to the hospital and i was given given my drugs to calm me down.Now am coughing and any time i do i feel like throwing up.Ive told my BF about it he is an optician and is 25.He told me he didn't enter me and at that time he had not released any sperm and that am not pregnant so i should relax but am so confused and dont know what to do.I dont want to check with a pregnancy test (even though i know thats the best way to calm my fears)cos i cant dont know how i will take it if i should find out that am pregnant.Am due to go back to school(polytechnic) in September and i dont want to miss this opportunity cos I've waited for it for a long time now and my dad will kill me if he should find out.My BF is very supportive and says he is ready to take responsibility if i should be pregnant.In as much as i like kids so much,i dont want one now.
Please i want to know whether am pregnant even though i had my monthly period normal?

Sometimes if you think about being pregnant so much, you will start to experience the \"pregnancy symptoms\" and not even be pregnant. That is why you should take a pregnancy test so you will stop your worrying. It doesn't sound like you are pregnant if he didn't get in you. No sperm entered, then you are fine. Also, you had a normal period. Although ive heard of girls who did have a light period when they were pregnant. (implantation bleeding)

Yeah I definitely think you aren't pregnant.

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It really sounds to me like you're not pregnant. I'm married, and I've had a lot of times when I have wanted to become pregnant, and thought about it a lot, and thought I was pregnant, only to find out that I wasn't. So, sometimes if you think about it too much, it will seem like you are. If that makes any sense? Just relax, take a test if you're still worried. That's the only way to know for sure. Besides, if you are (I doubt it) you would want to have the longest amount of time to think and plan for it, right? So, waiting longer will only shorten the time that you would have to plan. So, go for it, and let us know how it goes! You can do it!!
Victoria

Just to stop those fears i would do a test. It always reassures me.