Like 20min. ago I took a pregnancy test, and it came back positive, i'm not sure how far along I would be but i'm freaking out. I'm only 17, and my boyfriends happy for me, i know i want to keep it, but i'm not sure what to do now i'm scared! I don't know how to tell my mom, i'm afraid she'll hate me, or something. I don't want to tell her for awhile, but when's the right moment? never!
please helppppp!

fist of congrats ano it dunt seem the ryt thing to sey but trust me it is ur ryt there never is a ryt tym but u need to tell her as u need to c a midwyf etc n tht u cud ty by levinher a letter or just siitiin dwn talkin to her she may freak at first but she will cum round she may b happy stret away u never no just tell her as soon as possible the sooner the beter my aunty foud out bout me n told ma mum n ma mum was mor upset tht i dint tell her then tht i waspregers wb xxxxxxxxxx

I think if you confide in her as a friend asking for support rather than a daughter that needs punishing she will be more willing to help you. The sooner you do it the better because she can help you with insurance and give you advice that no one else can give you. Not only that, but if you wait you are more likely to make her angry from hiding it from her. I mean, if my daughter got pregnant at a young age (she's only three now lol) but if she hid it from me I would feel hurt that she felt she had to keep the most important thing in her life from me. When I went to my mom at 15, crying, and telling her that I had just taken a pregnancy test that came out positive she had a really supportive reaction and wanted to help me through it. That's just an idea though. Good luck!

Hi. When I found out I was pregnant I had no clue what I was going to do. I thought about not telling my mom at all, and I realised that I had to tell her. Luckily for me I am 18, and not 17 and I dont live with my parents anymore. So, when I told her I said it while holding on to the my car door; just in case. Well, what I would do is tel her sooner than later. My mom used to tell me that she would rather know things from the start and not later. WHat is your mom like? How do you think she will react? If you ever need to talk.. I am here..

Thankyou so much for all the help, and replies. She's very understanding, but she's always gave me crap like I hope you don't get pregnant and stuff. I've been with my boyfriend for a year, so it's not that part. And she has told me she may not like what she hears but she'd rather hear it from me, I'm just nervous. I feel like I need time to let it sink in even for myself. I'm nervous, i know i need to see a doctor and my sister is going to take me. I just don't know what to expect for the next 9 months, I am excited in a way though and so is my boyfriend. I don't think my parents will be though.

I don't know if this will help at all, but I'm 16 right now (turning 17 next month) and I just had my baby boy. I found out I was pregnant at a hospital that was an hour away from my house with the only people there with me being cops and a social worker. I didn't even get the chance to think about how to tell my mom because the cops called her and told her. So telling your mom yourself is probably better than that. When I had to tell my dad (my parents are divorced, so he didn't know right away) I ended up sending him a text message starting with saying \"I have to tell you something\" but he called afterwards and we talked about it a little. He was really upset and wouldn't even look at my boyfriend (the baby's dad)until just recently. He even came up to the hospital after the baby was born and had a conversation with my boyfriend and congratulated him. We were probably most nervous about telling my boyfriend's parents but even that turned out okay. My boyfriend told his mom when she was driving him to work one day, and his dad found out from word of mouth, but waited to say anything to us till we told him. And to make an extremely long and boring story short...it turned out much better than we expected. Everyone eventually came around and accepted this reality and by the end of my pregnancy everyone was excited and couldn't wait for him to be born. I'm sure that once the initial shock and everything wears off that everything will be fine and good things will come out of it.

By the way, my mom gave me crap about getting pregnant too. And she had just recently found out I wasn't a virgin before she found out I was pregnant.