i had sex on tuesday with my boyfriend and it was my first time. When we were done he said that the condom was in my bed cuz it wasnt on him anymore, neither of us felt it fall of but obviously it did, he did cum and im afraid he did in me, and im not on birth control, i have a lot of the syptoms, its been four days and i should be getting my period in a week and a half or so. He just dumped me and im scared i might be pregnant, i need advice on what other people think.

All you can do is wait for your period and if your late, take a test. I don't think your pregnant though because usually your most fertile time to concieve is a week or two after your last period. You mentioned that your period is sometime soon so I personally think there is a 45% chance your pregnant. It took me two-three weeks to feel symptoms so you may be scaring yourself into thinking your pregnant. Just wait it out and treat your body good right now just in case. Good luck, things will work out no matter what!

well, you are not alone, I am wondering the same thing but my period came, and i'm not convinced yet that i am safe. but this is one thing i do to calm my nerves. I check my BBT every morning while I am in Bed. ( Basal Body Temperature )

Interpreting the Basal Bobby Temperature Chart


The normal ovulatory pattern: Measure your basal (resting) body temperature first thing in the morning—even before getting out of bed. During the f follicular phase (the first half of your cycle) the \"normal\" BBT pattern should show only slight variations in your temperature (under 98 degrees). In response to progesterone produced at midcycle by the corpus luteum, your BBT will rise about a half degree (to about 98.4)

Sustained temperature rise: A sustained rise in your temperature—beyond the date for your next period—means that you are pregnant!

How to Keep Your Basal Body Temperature Chart

Begin taking your temperature on the morning your menstrual period ends.

At your first waking moment take your temperature by inserting the thermometer in your mouth, vagina, or rectum for five minutes. Do not vary your procedure from day to day or month to month. Use a clock to time yourself. DO NOT smoke a cigarette, eat or drink, or get up to go to the bathroom or to go find your thermometer before taking your temperature.

Record the thermometer reading on your chart under the correct day of your cycle (day 1 is the first day of your period). Record the days you have sex by placing an arrow at the bottom of the column. Record the days of your menstrual flow with an X. Record mittleschmerz if you feel it. Note any exceptions on your chart—for example, if you are ill, did not get a good night's sleep, or are running a fever. Also mark when your doctor performs any tests and what they are.

Wash the thermometer with cool soapy water, rinse it, shake it down, and place it in its protective case beside your bed. Some people prefer to use alcohol or disposable plastic thermometer protectors.

Repeat this procedure every day until your next period begins. Each month start taking your temperature on the morning your menstrual period ends.

but BBT is to keep up with your timing of ovulating, if you have a history of your periods. then you can find out if you were fertile that time you had unprotected sex. Go to mymonthlycycles.com to track ovualting and periods.

Believe me, I'm still afraid and I have a lot of thinking to do. I do believe in life though.

How old r u! do u have a car? or a friend with one. Go to a free clinic and get a test. that why your parents want know you think that you may be pregenant. i went to go get some more pills and the doctor She did a test before giving me some and I was less than a week now I'm five months and we. Me and him was only together for a little wild about two weeks let your ex go on with his life. Althougt we are still together everybody don't need a boy we need men. you can make it your parents will help my mother didn't want a grandchild. and this is my second time being pregenant the first time i was 15 and now i'm 20. I didn't keep it i had a abortion. And i'm total against you having one. My friend had one because she got pregenant after her first child was about 5 months and still got pregenant 5 months later with a little girl. u still can finish school and get a job and there is housing for you. this is your first time so if you don't cont. to have kids and be a nobody with a house full of kids you will be ok everybody make mistakes.

relax. the symptoms your having are all in your head becaue your freaking out. you won't be feeling symptoms yet. but there is a possiblilty you could have gotten pregnant just by the time you said you are expected to get your period. If it is 1 1/2 weeks and not 1 week.
See the average cycle is 28 days. You ovulate and are fertile around 14 days, or 2 weeks after your period or 2 weeks before your period, however you want to look at it.
Wait for you paeriod and try to relax! let me what happens!

omg I am so sorry to hear that but to be honest most guys are like that well even though you might be having symptoms take the test becaz alot of times it is bought on by stress