mmm... Maybe its a stupid question, or maybe too personal,,, but i just wanted to know how long before you had your baby did you start having sex, and did it hurt, did it felt different, did your boyfriend told you that there was something different down there???...

I had my baby 3 weeks ago, and they had to put me 10 stitches, im not thinking of having sex right now, i mean at this moment, but im afraid that it would hurt , or that it would feel different...

hiya congratulations on the birth of your child, you ar supposed to wait at least 6 weeks after giving birth, hope that helps, sadie x

Whenever you feel comfortable. I worried the same thing even though i didnt have stitches, but it felt the same for me. Oh...word of advice....the pill is not effective on its own...

Well it is about six weeks till you should fully stop bleeding and then afterwards you go back to normal (no gaping hole or anything, don't worry!) As for me, I had a c section and my son is only two weeks old so it won't be the same for me, just make sure you use protection!!

I waited about a wk after a stopped bleeding. It was hubbys idea coz he didnt want to hurt me.
I think the first time it was 5wks and the 2nd time it was about 3wks but im not 100% sure. It does feel weird waiting all that time, i noticed ive lost alot of muscle down there but you get that after having kids but some ppl are lucky and dnt notice the tightness going. Sorry if its too much info but best to describe it so you get an idea.
Your first time again after birth just go gentle.

i waited till 6wks or 7wks cuz i had stitches inside and out...and i didnt want it to hurt..when we finally had sex it hurt a little when h furst went in but it was fine after that...