Thanks for your response, i'am married the, 29th of this month will make 4yrs. everyone of my pregnancies have been with my husband, if i do end up pregnant this time i plan to keep the child although i dont feel i'am ready to have another child, i'am not ready to have ANOTHER abortion. I did some research on VCF and out of every 100 that have used it 15-20 have fallen pregnant and it has no hormones (it is a specide), i'll bet anything i have been one of those 15-20 lol, well my son would appreciate a sibling and i'm wouldnt be upset, the child would not be unwanted so, i guess its not so bad..Thanks again