hey everyone u all probably already kno me and that im 15 and pregnant. well my adoptive sister is taking me to planned parenthood so we can talk to the conselors there in a few days..... i have told the father and he flipped out and said that he wasnt the father and all this crap and now he is sending me these emails saying im a lying b***h and all this crap. i want him to be in his childs life but w/ the way hes acting shud i??? i kno he might try to get the child into drugs and try to screw the childs life up... but i really want my child to kno hs father even tho he isnt the best person in the world but i dont kno it wud mean a lot to me having my child kno his father..... and my b.f. now knos and he said that he knos all the responsiblities and he knos its hard raising a child and he said that he was going to be there tho. so shud i just say that hes the father??? im really not sure about this all right now i really need some advice....

well, I really think that yes, he should be in the childs life...even though hes not the best person in the world... you shouldnt lie about the father.... remeber back when i wanted to do the same thing and you told me not to? so there, dont lie to your baby. I seriouslly think that even though the real father...is into drugs and crap, he should still be involved...i mean think of it this way.... when you look at our dads.... they were alcoholics..but yet they changed and maybe he will eventually change. The baby is going to want to no the real dad. if you keep the baby away, it may end up gettin mad at you in the future for not letting it be with its father..... dont worry about the e-mails...hes just being the jerk he is.... were gonna see the guys and talk to them so wel just have to see what happens. i luv yah

dorkalious_stud_muffin wrote:



GURL WE ARE THERE FOR YOU!!!!!! DONT LIE TO THE BABY BUT BE CAREFUL WITH THE FATHER!!!!!