hey everyone
i was going to get an abortion but then i changed my mind.
i cant give up my precious child.
but in the beginning of my pregnancy i messed up pretty bad for awhile.
i know ive made posts about it before.
but for the past few weeks ive been doing nothing wrong at all..and eating good.
im still soo worried that something is going to happen to my baby.
i have an appointment at the doctor but its not for 2 weeks.
the doctor is really good so its hard to get an appointment there.
i just cant stop worrying.
i keep thinking that somethings going to happen to my baby,,

Hi.

Relax, please. Your anxiety can be felt by your baby. It's good that you care about what's happening but you aren't helping your situation by worrying too much. Find a woman who is a bit older than you preferably someone who just gave birth. Get some advice as to what you can do to relax. Yes, that's not a doctor and your situation may be different but then again, another thing you need is a kindred spirit, one who can have a good idea of what you're going through while at the same time holding your hand.

You can also search the Net for sites that really deal with the clinical side of pregnancy. You may need some hard, clinical facts.

Pray a lot. I think you'll find that listening to God and staying in His presence will not only calm you but make you stronger.

Oh, call the doctor. Maybe, just maybe there may be a change of schedule and he can suddenly fit you in.

Please take care.

Erick

some people dont find out for quite a while that theyre pregnant so go about drinking and in some cases doing drugs becoz they dont know they are pregnant but their babies turn out fine. it really depends on what sorta things u were doing and how often etc. but everything could be fine and by stressing about it u will just be putting more stress on the baby which wont help anything so try not to think about it and continue doing ur best to be a good mum =)

for the nxt two weeks just relax and keep calm. don't stress too much because that's not good for the baby......i don't know ur personal feelings on God but prayer works....just ask God to make sure ur baby is fine, He will listen.
good luck

The fact that you have chosen life has brought a smile to the Lords face. I know that my God is faithfull and He can and will be your God to if you ask Him to be. So what I have to say is simple. God can cause this baby to be born completely healthy all 10 fingers all 10 toes He honors those who do His will. But in the event that He allows this baby to have a struggle or two just know that you and that baby belong to Him and He will take care of you. He will not give you more than you can handle. Any questions? visit my profile page and say hi.....Love and Prayers Meg