ok, here it goes. My ex and I have had sex this Wednesday, Thursday and Friday. He ejaculated in me twice on Wednesday and I think once on Thusday. I was wondering what were the possibilities of me becoming pregnant. I love this man with all my heart and he loves me too, actually more. I'm scared and wondering if I should keep this baby if I am. We are not financially or emotionally ready. Him And I are still getting over our breakup. I broke up with him because I cheated on him. We still sleep together very so often. So hence how we ended up in this situation. He doesn't want any children. I've always wanted children but not now. What should I do ladies?

First off he's your EX that right there seems to be a major problem. But if you love eachother like you say you do I think you should have your baby. Honestly no one is every financially or emotionally ready for a baby so if your waiting for that moment to arrive trust me its not. But you need to work out your issues before you keep allowing him to ejaculate in you. What I dont get is how can he say he doesnt want any children but ejaculates in you? Either way if you are pregnant keep your baby, I've had an abortion and its not worth the pain. Keep us posted on your decision. Email me if you ever need to talk.

Wow, that's a tough situation...it's hard because a baby can bring a family closer together, or tear them apart. I would wait to see if you really are pregnant, first. Then, carefully consider all of your options. Talk it over with him, and your family. And good luck!

Well because apparently you didn't use a condom there is a possibility that you are pregnant...well so to say pregnant...the term is actually concieving because that takes 2weeks. When are you suppose to get your pierd?? i would really wait until you miss a period and then take a test. So in other words yes its very possible!

Well good luck...and i hope you get the results that you want.

Any advice ladies,anyone out there?

Hey girl,
I am 3 months pregnant now but in a similar situation. Your chances of you being pregnant depend on your body. My husband and I had unprotected sex for 2 years and I havent gotten pregnant untill now. Some women get pregnant the very first time they have sex. As far as abortion goes.... I have been face with this issue as well. My husband Has decided he no longer wants to be married to me and have children with me unless i convert to his relegion. I am only 20 and face the whole young and alone issue. I thought about abortion and I went to a clinic twice in hopes id be able to do it. I thank god i didnt. I realize all of the dececions I have made in my life were conciously made by myself---- some good some bad. babies are a creation god has his hand in. Situations like this require alot of faith in god. If you Stay focused on keeping your baby safe healthy and happy- and keep your future in the picture, there is no reason girls and women like us shouldnt succeed. As far as the daddy goes---- pray for him. Girl, you and your baby deserve and man who wants to give you the world. So if he doesnt wanna then thats ok--- you have enough love to give untill that type of man is in the picture. I hope I gave you some decent advice. write me back though id like to talk to ya - Andrea