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im 15 and scared 7 years ago #1033

Im 15 years old, and I may be pregnant. I told my boyfriend, and he said that no matter what he
would be there for me. But the thing is, he is 20. So I dont no if its legal or not. He freaked out
and he wants his best friend to say hes the father. Since his friend is 17. But I tried to tell my
boyfriend that it was wrong to do that. But he doesnt want to risk going to jail. which i totally
understand. He goes on about how it will only be for 3 years (till i turn 18) Im just very scared at
the moment. Im still not sure if im pregnant. But, my boyfriend, constantly talks about it....and i
tell him to drop it, but he saids we have to be prepared in case I am. I dont no what to do if i
am...

Re:im 15 and scared 7 years ago #1039

  • sara
hey!! tell your boy friend that its your decision on what you do casue lets face it if you are pregnant you'll be the one having the baby! so i say what ever you want goes!! also buy a home pregnancy test!! I did and then i went to my school nuse and took it in her office cause she knew what she was doing!! Also my boyfriend came with me but its whatever you want!! but you might want to make sire that you are pregnant or are not pregnant before you do anything else!

Re:im 15 and scared 7 years ago #1040

  • monica
i am in the same situation so dont worry bout it hunny. by the way do u live in the area of fall river , ma?

Re:im 15 and scared 7 years ago #1043

  • caralh515
Well it is illegal for b/c you are a minor and he is an adult but the only way that hey would get in trouble is if your parents pressed charges...that is the way it works if it was consentual sex. Also if you arent married than no father's name goes on the birth certificate anyways unless you get an affidavit. Your right, it would be wrong for his best friend to say he is the father, b/c when it comes time for childsupport and all of that and a paturnity test is ordered everyone will know he isnt the dad anyways. You need to jsut get a test and see what happens. It isnt easy to go through any of this but it does need to be talked about so you two can prepare depending on the outcome of your test results. good luck!

Re:im 15 and scared 7 years ago #1054

  • Paleonyx
Stop having sex with him first of all. If you must have sex with him at the very least, use protection because it doesn't sound like he is mature enough to handle a baby... and at 15 you could use a few more years as well.

Re:im 15 and scared 7 years ago #1061

  • Claudia
I know what you are going through, well...somewhat..I am almost 17 (next month) and i think i am pregnant as well...Your boyfriend is right...you do need to be prepared for it, if it turns out that you are..The consenting age is 16...i believe, but he would only go to jail if your parents pressed charges agianst him...but you have a boyfriend there for you..be thankful for that...My boyfriend broke up with me...before i thought i was...but i havent told him that i think i am...
my best regards
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