ok hear goes, i'm 44yrs of age, and im worried, my tubes are tied, have been for 19yrs, but for some strange reason i have missed my ;monthly periiod. my husband says that mayb i am menopausing, and i told him that my period would have not stopped all at once, give me some advice.

I know when my mom started menopause in her early 40s and it become very irregular. She said she wouldn't get a period for a month or two and then she would get a really light one. This kept going on for about 7 years until it finally stopped. Maybe you are starting that phase of menopause.