can u girls help me pleazzee? i am 14. my 13 year old girlfreind is pregnant. i am scared. i luv my girl and i want to be the dad mine never was but how? pleazzee give me some suggestions.

Make sure you have some support. From your parents or her parents, older siblings or whoever. Being so young you guys will have a hard time doing it by yourselves. But as long as there is love, have faith that everything will be okay.

Ryan,

I'm glad to hear that you love your girlfriend and are willing to stand beside her and support her. For many girls the father bails out on them during this hard time. I know it might be frightening and scary right now, but you two need to be there for each other.

Do either of your families know about the pregnancy yet? It may be frightening to tell them, but especially since you are both young it will be best to have the support from your families.

Like Georgia stated, having a baby will bring many changes and responsibilities to your lives. But I hope that you two decide not to have an abortion and decide to give life to this child. However you might want to consider adoption as a loving alternative. Either way it will not be easy and you will have to face some hardships, but you will make it through. Continue to support your girlfriend and your child. Try to do what is best for your child and for the two of you, whether it is parenthood or giving the child up for adoption and moving on with your lives. Best wishes.

Kate

ok here goes life is full of bad choices and u made the risk of having sex so u can just help her and be there for her at least u have the courage and audasity to step up and be a man about it For that i give u a smiley

be there for her as much as possible and get a hold of financial aid services to help with the money and WIC to helpwith food and stuff. i know that your ages are way too young to actually work right? Don;t you have to be 16? Have you talked to both of your parents? I suggest whatever choice you guys make to keep, abort, or give the baby to others, make sure thats he gets on depo or osme type of birth controla nd you start to buy and wear condms. i wish you guys teh best of luck and i will keep you in my prayers.

Ryan,
I can say im sorta in the same boat as u. I'm 14 and im pregnant. Although my boyfriend is 17, he isn't at all ready for this. Neither am i. Feeling scared is sooo normal. I know telling ur parents will be hard. but it's the best choice. i shouldn't be talking cause my parents don't even know yet. heck, they don't even know im dating my boyfriend. Just be prepared for the worst and hope for the best. It will all fall into place.