hi there. i dont think there is anything anyone can say to make u feel better atm. i think thatwhat u are going through is that worst thing in the world and i dun no what u can tell ur wife to make her feel better. i think the best thing to do would be there for one another. get through together and then hopefully it will make things a little better. if the worst does happen to ur daughter, it will happen because it is her time to go. maybe this is happening to preent her from something worse happening in the future. she has had a happy life i am sure., let nature take its course. i no this sounds really heartless but there is nothing more u can do. leave it to the doctors and see. support ur partner through this and let her support u too. be there for one another. get through this and u guys will be ok together. there is another lady on here who has lost three children, maybe talk to her about how she has gotten through. she has posted a blog called 'FEELING EMPTY INSIDE' or something along those lines. good luck and i hope ur daughter does get better.
tashie
