Hi im 16 and just found out im pregnant this monday i ve only told 3people my boyfriend his sister and her boyfriend but i dont know how to tell my mum and dad?

there gonig thorugh alot at the moment my dads gf just lost a baby and my mums dad has just found out hes got cancer , i really feel like i need to tell them becauses its killing me them not knowing but even if i could right now im not sure how i would manage it!

i havent even been to the doctors yet because i dont want them to find out now and get even more upset than they already are!

what should i do im confused xxx

When I told my parents that I was they were very understanding.(my niece told my mom).. When my mom took me in to make sure she told me that I had to tell my dad. I am a daddys girl and he was out of town, I call him and told him and he said that he would do anything to help me out if I needed it.. and I didnt think he would be to happy cause he had just been put in the hospital for a snowmobile accident that left him paralyzed. My whole family (my dads side) was very very help ful... I think you should have your bf's sister and her bf listen to you and talk out what you want to tell them and how... that is what a couple of my friends did and their parents were very helpful... Hope this helps...
and Good Luck

Hi there, In my opinion when one life is lost another is created. My grandfather died 5 days before I found out I was pregnant and I just knew that it happened for a reason. I know you are probably scared but just think, maybe its waht everyone needs. Something positive and promising to hold on to. Just remember the lord works in mysterious ways.

thanks peeps, i told my mum and yeah she was shocked at first but shes coming round to the idea now and i feel better about it but as for my dad he flipped out i think it was a bit too much for him because ive always been his little girl but he should be alright about it, i feel so much better now ive told my family because ive got so much more support than i thought i wouldld xxx

Im glad for you that it went well. Atleast as well as can be expected. Keep your chin up. You now have the most fulfilling job in the world. There is nothing like it.

you need to just tell them...the more you wait the worse it will be..you are preg you and your baby need the doctor, and need prenatal vitamins....don't worry about how they will react, most of us imagine the worst and it is never as bad as we thought...just sit them down and tell them straight up...don't hide it.....and tell them through a leter or text or anything like that...i told my dad while i was at school and he was at work over a hundred miles away, that is the only reason he was really mad at me.......so just learn from others mistakes.....if you need to talk you can eamil me....GOOD LUCK....