Hello,
My name is Ashleigh. I am brand new to this site. I guess i just need some advice on what to do. I am 35 weeks pregnant and it has been very rough. The father and I have been together for 4 years, but he is not around and we live 2 hours away from each other. I am pretty much going to be a single mom and I am so scared. Everyday I get closer to my due date I get even more scared. I am always so stressed out by the things my baby daddy does to me I am so scared that my son is going to suffer from this. I feel like all he ever hears is me crying. I want him to be a happy child. I know I will love him and take care of him the best way that I know how. I have been in and out of the hospital with complications the last couple of weeks and I am so scared I am hurting my son.

THE BEST THiNG FOR YOU TO DO iS TO FOCUS ON YOU & YOUR BABY ! YOU DO NOT WANT TO STRESS OVER A MAN WHO MAKES YOU CRY & HURTS YOU WHiLE YOU ARE PREGNANT WiTH HiS CHiLD iT STUPiD HOW YOU WERE WiTH HiM FOR 4 YEARS BUT YOUR SAYiNG YOUR GOiNG TO BE A SiNGLE MOM ? WHY ? HOW COME HE CANT BE HERE FOR YOU NOW ?


iF HE iS PUTTiN YOU THROUGH STRESS & MAKiNG YOU GO iN AND OUT OF THE HOSPiTAL THEN HE iS NOT WORTH iT . iN THE LONG RUN YOU WiLL MOVE ON & BE HAPPY WiTH YOU & YOUR CHiLD AND THATS iT !

HI SWEETiE! WELL LET ME START OUT BY SAYiN CONGRATS ON UR BABY BOY. i CAN ONLY iMAGiNE WHAT UR GOiNG THRU...MY BABY'S DAD WASNT THERE WHEN i WAS PREGNANT & i STRESSED SO MUCH iT CAUSED ME TO LOSE MY BABY [AUGUST 28, 2006]...iT WAS A GiRL...i WAS SO DEVASTATED & ALL i GOT FROM MY BABY'S DAD WAS AM i OKAY & FOR ME TO CALL HiM LATER ON THAT NiGHT...i CALLED...HE DiDNT ANSWER...THAT LET ME KNO HE DiDNT CARE ABOUT ME! SO i JUST HAD TO LET HiM GO...SLOWLY...WE'VE BEEN BROKEN UP FOR 3 WEEKS NOW...i'M SO GLAD i GOT HiM OUT OF MY LiFE...BECAUSE HE WASNT WORTH iT...AND JUST LiKE YOUR BABY'S DAD...HE iSNT WORTH THE PAiN & SUFFERiNG & NOW YOUR BABY iS PAYiNG FOR iT...DONT BLAME iT ON YOURSELF BECAUSE HE iSNT BEiNG A REAL MAN & BEiNG THERE FOR YOU...BLAME iT ON WHOEVER RAiSED HiM! HiS MOM? HiS DAD? MEN ARE RAiSED NOT TO CARE...SO THEY LOSE GOOD THiNGS WHEN THEY DONT EVEN REALiZE iT. YOU JUST HAVE TO LET HiM GO FOR THE SAKE OF YOUR SON. BELiEVE ME WHAT ONE MAN WONT DO ANOTHER WiLL...ANOTHER MAN WiLL LOVE YOU 10 TiMES MORE THAN UR BABY'S DAD WHEN YOU LET HiM GO! HE WiLL LOVE YOUR SON EVEN MORE THAN UR BABY'S DAD WiLL TOO...EVERYTHiNG WiLL BE OK...i BET YOU WiLL FEEL 100% BETTER WHEN YOUR SON GETS HERE & HE WiLL COMPLETE YOUR LiFE...THE ONLY MAN A WOMAN CAN TRUST iS HER SON. REMEMBER THAT SWEETiE...JUST PRAY...GOD WiLL TAKE CARE OF EVERYTHiNG JUST TRUST & BELiEVE iN HiM...HE iS HERE FOR YOU...YOU KNOW WHAT? A GiRL NAMED SHANA WHO iS ALSO ON THiS SiTE ONCE TOLD ME WHEN i WAS GOiNG THROUGH A LOT THAT i AM A STRONG TOWER & iTS GONNA TAKE MORE THAN HiM TO KNOCK ME DOWN...SHOW HiM UR STRONGER WiTHOUT HiM...BECAUSE RATHER YOU SEE iT OR NOT...YOU ARE...iN THE END YOU WiLL BE HAPPY WiTH YOUR SON...AND WHOEVER WiLL LOVE YOU BETTER THAN HiM.

i'M HERE iF YOU NEED ANYONE TO TALK TO.

i HOPE EVERYTHiNG WORKS OUT WELL FOR YOU!!<br><br>Post edited by: acas, at: 2006/11/21 02:17