Im 13 years old and 12 weeks pregnant. I am pregnant to my best friends boyfriend and she thinks i am pregnant to my ex.
I told my mum and she told me to leave so at the moment im staying with a friend who doesnt know. im really lost i dont know what to do where to go??
anyone have any helpfull advice or your even jus able to talk????

If you need to talk about anything go ahead! I will always listen and answer.

If you ever need to talk, I'm always here

i just have no idea what im goin to do.
I told my mum and she told me to get out so now im staying with a mate who i cant tell and im starting to get morning sickness and im in my first year at highschool i just dont know what to do.

you need to be honest with your friend... because the truth will come out sooner or later and I dont think that she should be hearing something like this from someone else. As to how she's going to react... who knows? I think that you risked your friendship by sleeping with her bf and you'll have to risk it again by being honest with her.
Your mom needs time to cool down, have you spoken to her recently since she asked you to move out?

Hi.

That's quite a predicament you have. The first thing you should do is to look for help with people who can really help you. People who will listen is a good start but people who can give you the concrete help that you need is more necessary.

I know that you're so afraid to talk about this to older people (I just turned 40 ten days ago) but you really need to. Try to go to your church or find a convent of nuns. Nuns normally get a bad rap but they really are very, very warm people who got into religious life because they love the Lord and all those that He loves. There are a lot of religious orders who will even take you in and allow you to live with them when no one else will. They will do this even if you aren't at all Catholic.

Another option is for you to approach a guidance counselor at your school. Believe it or not, yours is not the first case like this and they will have some options for you.

Is abortion an option? Definitely not. You should know by now that your mother was a bit unfair to have turned you away. You really are still her little baby and she's just as lost and mad about this as you are and she just doesn't know what to do. Do pray for her.

Whatever the case may be, try to be a better mom than your mom has been to you at this point. Please do not reject your baby. That little one is a gift to you, regardless of whether the child will complicate things for you now. Embrace that baby in your heart and try to find good help that will love you and your baby at the same time.

Please do not commit the mistake of abortion. It will ruin you in more things than I can say.

Do not panic at this point. Try to find relatives who may be able to understand you also. Those of us who are here cannot really come to your aid physically and that's what you really need right now.

You said you were in week twelve already and that means you really should see a doctor to determine what kind of medical care both you and your baby need.

If you should need more input, you can freely talk to me here

I am going to Mass today, tomorrow and on Sunday. I will be praying for you in each of those Masses and I will be offering a rosary for you also.

Hang in there. We're here for you. The Lord is, too.

Erick