ok well my name is Sandra 18 yrds old and im 22 weeks pergo wit my baby boy James

I dont know wat to do about my bf, we couldnt get our own place because he doesnt have a job & im in Chrildrens Aid Society I only get like 700$ a month so its not enough to really pay rent bills food etc....

So we had to move in wit his family, its really weird for me because I dont really like livin other someones elses family, its worse because im prego.

I just dont noe if its the way im askin my bf Chris to get a job, that makes him so mad buh I really cant take it anymore...all he does is sleep in till 2-3pm everyday

Never wants to learn anything new about the baby, for him his like my first child all he does is play video games, eats an sleeps

just wondering if im overeating?not asking right, being to pushy idk

p.s his turing 20 in Feb

I dont think your over reacting at all . As a matter of fact if I was in your postions I probably would be doing and acting the same way. I know how it is to want to do something or be somewhere and u feel like ur spouse is holding you back or not on ur side when it comes to certain things

well hey! first of all i want to introduce myself., im CAMILLE from Philippines 17 years old., my bf HAROLD is 18 looking for a job., getting ready in case of me to get prego!! your so LUCKY coz you are 22weeks prego! awe! so your problem is about your bf? right?

first thing talk to him.. tell him what you want, that you want to move with your own! tell him what you feel.. which is you are not comfortable living with his family! and with his works., tell him that you are not happy of what he was doing! tell him that you want both of you to be RESPONSIBLE enough when your BABY came..

second thing, made him realize that base on what he was doing. is that he is AN IRRESPONSIBLE partner and most especially irresponsible FATHER! tell him that if he wants his baby to be proud of him., he must prove himself unto YOU, HIS PARENTS, YOU PARENTS and to everyone! but most especially is to your baby!

but before you start this stuff., be MORE nice., sweet., show more love., while talking with him be calm and sweet! if he gets mad., then do not argue with him., just tell him that it was all your dreams., that you want to come true! coz you want you and be baby would be proud of him! ok? i hope this could help you!

i add you up in my account just confirm it., and do not hesitate to write on my wall! if there's still a problem.. take care of yourself and your baby!
gudluck!

-cams2know

You have every right to get upset about your boyfriend not getting a job. As long as you are acting nice when you ask him if he has looked for a job lately he has no right to get mad. He is responsibe for the baby boy in your belly, just as much as you are. Honestly if he don't get his act together soon you might want to consider leaving. I know thats hard to think about but it might just be the best thing. I really wish you the best of luck. I know how hard it is to be young and pregnant, and if you need any advice you can ask me anytime. I myself am seventeen, married, and thirty four weeks pregnant. I can't do anything for myself anymore. I'm on bed rest cause I have went into preterm labor two times. Good luck with you boyfriend and the rest of your pregnancy.

you both made this baby but it looks like you are the only one that is willing to take responsibility! It should not be that way..
I know it's easier said than done, but you should leave him, after all you are the one that is working and carrying this baby! What is going to happen when you go on maternity leave? I hope you sort things out soon and NO you're not in the wrong at all but I honestly think he needs to get his act together.

You have every right to be angry. Tell him he either gets a job or you can't put with him anymore! Its not fair to you to be going through the pregnancy alone, it's hard especially when you are young. Talk to his family and ask if they can help him find a job. Good luck to you!