heyy everyone!
im gabby
i need some advice, im 1 month pregnant today! and i told my mum and dad they were the first people i told then i told my boyfriend and me and him are so hapy about the news!
my mum and dad said they were too & they acted happy about it too.
maybe it was all too good to be true! wich it was
i overheard my mum and dad talking in the living room saying that she should have abortion again bcoz this is a massive mistk
and i feel so lost again i had a abortion 7months and 3 weeks ago this monday 23/3/09 bcoz they both maid me! and kno i feel they wont me to go thru all that all over again. me and ollie didt want to the first time and we deffo dont want to do it again it was a massive mistk and i dont kno what to do i want to keep my baby and i dont want him/ or her to be tken off me it would crush me
any advice?
how do i stand up to them tho?
and why cant they just be happy with my choice?
HELP please any advice?

thankyou!!! gabriella xxxx

ohh gabby I am so sorry you heard your mom saying that stuff Honestly, my mom reacted the same way telling me to get an abortion and really other rude stuff. Eventually she has come around, do you see your mom coming around? most all parents do! Do not go along with abortion if you do not want too, you can keep this baby! Tell them firmly you have made your decision and that you cannot go through what happened to you previously. Say that you are asking for their support but if they cannot give that to you than you will do it on your own with ollie. I promise you they will eventually come around, they love you. I know how hard this is when your own parents say such hurtful things so please msg me if you need anything. XOXO

Im sorry about your parents gabby please just dont give in, even show them pictures of how developed your baby already is. im sure they are just worried about your future, so maybe try to re assure them that you are doing the right thing. please take care!

xox

Dont even think about doing it!!!! :angry:I dont know your parents,but im so mad at them!!!They should be supporting you.I've had an abortion before and not a day goes by that i dont regret what i did.So please dont let your parents guilt you into doing it.

Hunny, please don't let them get to you. I know that it must've hurt to hear their words, bu tyou and Ollie need to stand up to them this time.
Steph is 100% right i asking for their support and how to deal with their reaction.
How are Ollie's parent's handling the news? Would they be willing to help out if the need arises?
Please keep posting and let us know how yr doing.
Much love and support,
E xoxoxo

hey gabby, im gemma.
I read your little blog a few days ago and thought it was great you were so happy about your baby and you still should be! Nobody can make you give him/her up and no matter how negative people are around you, stay happy and positive! Your mum & dad will accept your decision soon enough and im sure they will learn to love your baby just as much as you do!! Your also so lucky your boyfriend is being so supportive. Just keep being happy about your pregnancy and your mum & dad will see how sure you are wont try to change your mind

Hope your feeling okey, and if you wanna chat i'll be here
love gem <3 xx