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Please help!!! 4 years, 11 months ago #15338

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I am 33 weeks pregnant with a baby girl:laugh: . She was due early August, but i am being induced in 5 weeks because of my diabetes. I am not with my daughters father since he cheated on my twice during the time i have been pregnant. Im heartbroken. I still love him dearly. He has always said he will be there for the two of us no matter what and still calls over 20 times a day begging for another chance saying he is sorry and he will do anything to make it up. But it wasnt just the once it was TWICE! Apart from the cheating all was great before. As much as i want to be with him i know i could never fully trust him again. I dont know what to do?

Re:Please help!!! 4 years, 11 months ago #15342

hun, i know what you're going through. my husband left me on my due date for my ex best friend. but, i'm glad he did it, because i don't want that sort of heartache around my son. you don't deserve that kind of strees, especially while you're pregnant. it will be ok. i promise.

Re:Please help!!! 4 years, 11 months ago #15346

Congradulations on the baby. This might not sound like advice to you but just do what you think is best. Personaly I wouldn't give him another chance he ruined that the 2nd time he cheated. He can always be there for the 2 of you and he can always be the father figure but that doesn't mean you have to be with him. Do what your heart tells you.
Kaitlin

Re:Please help!!! 4 years, 11 months ago #15349

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my mom always said, you can't make a leopard change it's spots. just because you love someone doesn't mean you should be with them. trust me, you will love again, and after having your baby you will see that you need to consider what's best for the both of you. being a role model is real now. you don't want your child seeing you jerked around by this guy. it's not worth it. protect your child from witnessing this jerk and create a civil and mature relationship, based on one and only one mutual interest -- the child. that's it.

Re:Please help!!! 4 years, 11 months ago #15357

I NO HOW U FEEL AND ONCE SUM 1 MAKES U LOSE TRUST IN THEM ITS HARD 2 GET IT BACK BUT IF U FEEL U CAN WORK IT OUT U TRY AND IF U DNT U BOTH B GUD PARENTS AND DNT LET IT EFFECT THE CHILD

Re:Please help!!! 4 years, 11 months ago #15362

Sorry 2 say but once a cheater always a cheater
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