im a pregnant teen in an abusive relationship. im only 15 the father of my baby is 19 he didnt want me to have the baby at first so he competely blew me off but at 3 months he came back finally, i was so happy until he started abusing me psychially and mentally/emotionally. my friends and his says its just his way of hiding his emotions. now i love him so so so so so so much and he's the only person ive been with but im scared that h doesn't really want this baby (even though he says he's had a change of heart and wants to be there) im afraid hes still doesn't and since i wot get an abortion hes decided to do it himself. now i know him and he doesnt mean any harm but hes scared and doesnt think hes ready for it i just wish he would find another way to show/hide his emotions because im 5 1/2 months pregnant and if he hits me again im afraid of what gonna be the end result.

pulll away from that... ive been in a similar position. whether he loves u or not; or u do him, it can escalate and u will get hurt. Now, did u do the abortion? whatever the answer did u want to? despite ur emotions being confused, think clearly about wat u want for the future. then pray, hope and plan that it will be ok.

well by the sound of it his intention is to kill ur baby..... which IMO he does mean harm.... as i dont c how he could mean anything else when he beats u to kill ur baby. do u really want to stick around and find out if hel do it? i think not, so my advice would be to get out of that relationship now! dont make excuses for him either hes a big boy and knows what hes doing

He's 19, not a child, and doesn't have any excuse for this. Obviously, he can't want this baby too much or he wouldn't risk the baby's life (or yours) by hurting you. At 15, you need to get away from him. What do your parents think? Or, do you hide it from them? If so, that's the worst thing in the world you can do. It gives him a cover to hide under when his crime should be exposed. He'll be a whole lot more likely to change, if not for your sake, for his and his child's, if everyone knows what he's doing and give him hell about it. That includes his family, your family, and all your/his friends. I'd put him in jail if you were my daughter.

okay so my ex never hit me, dosnt mean theres no abuse... he said horriable thigns to me, made me cry so much.. threatened to hit me.. and it was all in front of our son.. so even if he dosnt kill the baby before its born.. think about what the child will go through.. i thought it would get better it but did acctully get worse like everyone said.. its hard to let go.. but you cant stay with someone like that.. you have to think about your future.. and your un born child.. i just recently escaped my horriable relationship.. it hurts to think about the fact that someone that \"loves you\" would do such things.. but if they do that.. how can they love you? -- i dont beleive they do.. its time to step up as a mom, and protect yourself so you can protect your child.. it took me almost to long to step up.. and now that i have.. i have to say my son smiles more, i smile more, i have more freedom, i feel better about everything.. and all around.. life is so much sweeter.. so i can only hope that you come around and leave, it scares me to think that us mothers cant always accept its not good to stick around... and some of us wait too long...

o know u love him but if he's hitting u that is NOT a good relationship to raise a baby in and u NEED to get out!! NOW!!!!...please for the sake of ur baby get out and if he hits u again call the police!