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I Chose life *15 years* ღ28 ωεεкşღ
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I Chose life *15 years* ღ28 ωεεкşღ 2 years, 5 months ago #25056

Today I'm ღ28 ωεεкşღ pregnant and for those who are still stuck behind the two choices I wanted to tell my story. When I found out I was preg I was 4 weeks along. My mom found out when I was 6 weeks along. Ever since she tried to pressure me to have an abortion. I was also 15 when I found out. I knew one thing she could not legally "force" me into having an abortion so I stood my ground. Every single day she told me what mistake I'm making how I am "f****ing stupid" etc... Everyday she tried to put me down and tell me how am I hurting the baby and my self. The thing is I knew I would hurt the baby more if I decide to tear it apart and throw it away like some garbage. I could not do it and I could never forgive myself if I did do it. I decided that no matter what happens I will stay to my decision. She found new ways to try to pressure me into it. She tried saying that she would kick me out if I did not get an abortion and she also said she would press charges against the baby's father who is older than me. Funny thing was I knew with out my cooperation and without a DNA test she cannot do NOTHING. She actually did kick me out for a week then cried for me to come back. I cried almost every day because the stress was killing me. Well I decided to keep the baby. I found out its a boy and a very healthy one. Everyday I'm thankful for him even tho he was not planned. I do not regret my decisions and right now I'm 16 with As and Bs in school. I'm ღ28 ωεεкşღ along and I'm with the baby's father and I'm doing great.Since I was 4months and I remind my mom how she made me feel she acts like it never happen I think she feels guilty but she will get over it. I'm just saying no matter how hard it gets do not give up because pressure and depression are not excuses to take a life. At least in my mind.

Re:I Chose life *15 years* ღ28 ωεεкşღ 2 years, 5 months ago #25058

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Your story is very touching, I myself am pregnant. Except my story is far different then yours. I got pregnant by my now husband at sixteen, shortly after turned seventeen and married my husband with the blessing of my mother and father, and they signed for it. I'm also having a baby boy. I'm 30 weeks, and four days pregnant. I'm so happy you never let anyone talk you into killing your baby, no woman can really be happy by that choice. Your a very strong young lady, and so many people should look at you like that. Good luck woth your baby, and school. I hope you will update about your baby boy.

-Harley.
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Re:I Chose life *15 years* ღ28 ωεεкşღ 2 years, 5 months ago #25059

TY =] I'm actually living with him (he moved in) and hes helping me a lot... Its hard being preg at young age and taking care of the baby but defiately worth it. I'm glad I choose live and my baby boy is so cute he also looks like he is smiling in the latest ultrasound pic

Re:I Chose life *15 years* ღ28 ωεεкşღ 2 years, 5 months ago #25060

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Iswaggalicious, just out of curiosity, how old is your BF, I mean you are 15 and living with him, do you live with his parents? Does your mom know where you are at now that she has kicked you out?...Just wondering...

Re:I Chose life *15 years* ღ28 ωεεкşღ 2 years, 5 months ago #25061

18...Yea she knows she kicked me out for a week few months ago

Re:I Chose life *15 years* ღ28 ωεεкşღ 2 years, 5 months ago #25062

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Do the two of you have any plans for marriage? Since your mom kicked you out would she go ahead and sign for you to be married? Does he have his own place? Do you have everything you need?...I just want to make sure that you are ok...did you two meet at school?...Love Meg
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