Hi Everyone, Im Kat, Im 10 weeks pregnant and I still haven't made my decision whether to keep my child or not!! I know God put this lil creation inside of me for a purpose but my boyfriend keeps insisting I abort it.

I'm 19yrs and Peruvian and it's my 2nd year as a full time college student.I have a very strong christian upbringing but I also have a very open mind about everything. My boyfriend is white 21yrs old police officer. Thing is I know right now it may not be the right time for both of us to have children because i still want to travel and finish a college degree first but I feel in my heart God chose me to be mother at this time for a reason. The thing is my boyfriend's family are very disrespectful and racist towards blacks and illegal immigrants. ( i know, i should have never been involved with a family like this). They want me to abort and are treating me like crap right now. But they warned me if I keep it they are going to court to get 50% custody and they will try to see it as much as possible. I really want to keep my child but I don't want my child to be influenced by such negative people!!! It makes it worst that they want to be in the child's life if I keep it cuz then I can't raise her/him fully with my beliefs and Peruvian culture.

Im so frustrated because I don't want these people in my life anymore but If I keep the child they will have to be for the rest of my life!!! My bf called for an abortion appt. this wed. and i don't know what to do!!!!! please help im going crazy.

love Kat

hey grl,
i understand totally where your coming frm, but really think. do you put ur education first and abort the baby or keep the baby. you can finish your degree at anypoint in your life you have like 60 yrs to do it (but i do get the point of doing it now). you could keep the baby and resume collage in about 3 or 4 years even. I just think maybe youll regret it hun if you abort. It is your decision and it does depend on how you and your partner feel, but think really hard about the decision because it is a life changin one.
gemx

girl, i understand where you are coming from,, but i say you should keep your baby because it is your own! right now it might seem hard for you to keep this child, but in the end you will be thankful god send you a lil angel from heaven, This child will only make you stronger in the end. really girl think about it but dont kill this little one. this little one will be yours to love. right now the daddys parents might be telling you all that stuff to really see if you are strong enough to raise a child, you have to prove to them that you can!!!!! girl just keep your baby!!!!! Everything will turn out good. God is here to help everyone of us, and maybe by sending you a little one, he is helping you out!!!!!

Hi i'm Karlie and im 18 yrs old. Im 7 weeks pregnant at the moment and my boyfriend has pushed me into having an abortion. Well he didnt realy give me an option. He did everything in his power to make sure I would get it done.

I took the first pill yesterday, I have to go into hospital tomorrow to miscarry. I feel so ill and I regret it already. Its actualy hit me that Im in the process of killing my child. I feel so selfish, I just wish I was a stronger person to stand up to all those people who want me to get rid of MY baby. Ive made a mistake which I cant take back, its too late, now I have to live with it for the rest of my life.

so for all you people who are thinking that an abortion will just be a quick and easy way to return to normal, it isnt! DONT make a quick decision, take your time and think about it. At the end of the day its upto YOU and only you. If you rush things you will have to live with it for the rest of your life.

This is the worst time of my life and my boyfriend doesnt realy understand what im going through. Thats not his fault because he just has a one track mind, and that all about himself. This situation that im in has made me realise who actualy cares. Its crazy that something so hard like this shows the true colours of loved ones, that you think are everything, when realy thier not. I dont need my boyfriend and his views have made me this way. A part of me hates him when i look at him now and i dont think i will ever beable to change that. My mums my rock at the moment, if it wasnt for her i dont think i could be as strong as i am.

Karlie x

Keep you baby, your boyfriend's family is being contradictory. They say you should kill the kid, and at the same time they say if you keep the baby they want it. Have you told your own family yet? They should know so they have the chance to support you and the new relative you are pregnant with. You will be in my prayers. Good luck.
Teresa

i think everyone gets placed with a huge desision at one point or anothor, what you do is up to you. if your family dis agrees with you keeping your child i think they are wrong especially because they are strong christians, my family as well came from a strong christian, i was brought up around it, but not everyhting goes right in your life, but our family has stuck together. i am 16 an dpregnant and keeping my child, now my situation isnt as bad as yours expecially if your boyfriends family is the way they are. they shouldnt be saying what they are to you.. and whatever they say or do, just get your stuff together. this isnt about them this is about you your feelings, and yours and your boyfriends relationship. talk to him about it all... whatever you decide hold your head up and keep going forward. everything does happen for a reason...