Help, please. I am thirty four weeks pregnant with twin girls, and I have two small children already. The problem is, my husband just decided to leave me and his kids for another girl. He treats us like he hates us now, and acts like he doesn't want anything to do with any of us. He isn't working, so me and the kids have no money, and the twins don't have everything that they need. I'm so scared, he's been part of my life for four years, since we had just turned fifteen, and I don't know how I am going to do this all by myself. My son is two and a half, and my daughter is eleven months, and, the doctor says that my babies could deliver anyday now because I have been in and out of the hospital with contractions three times in two weeks, and I just don't know where I am supposed to find the strength to do this all myself. I feel like my whole life is crashing and burning, and theres nohting that I can do about it. I didn't sign up to do this alone, it's just not fair, and I am so scared. I don't want to have surgery alone. Any words of encouragement will definatly help, please give me some input, my babies are coming any day now. Help.
Michelle Jones

I know things seem really bad right now but you have to be as strong as you can. When the storm is comming just smile because the sun is going to come out and shine. You're going to make it through the struggle. The bigger the storm the bigger the blessing.
much love, sgurl

You are doing a very brave thing. No matter what your husband does you are right for defending the lives of you children. I was a triplet and my mom went into labour at 32 weeks. She had a C section and was fine. I am sure your surgery will go well too and your twins will be fine. Mom never regretted giving life to me and my sisters. Stay strong and know you have been in my prayers for months and that I will keep praying for you. You are not alone, even though you can not see me I am here for you. Feel free to keep posting, I will try to answer. I would love to hear about it when the twins are born.

heya honey i cant imagine wot ur goin thru but if it helps i hav 2 babys and im single too.
im sure youl b a fantastic mummy- if their dad doesnt want then it just means you get al their love to yourself.

lotsa luv kayleigh xxx<br><br>Post edited by: SweetTea, at: 2006/11/26 13:58

AWW girl.You poor thing. Your man doesnt seem to have any respect for you or the kids, thats not nice at all.
Is there any family support out there for you guys? Can you get help from a Support service for other baby things?
I hope things go well for you and the kids and try not too stress too much coz that will bring on labour too.
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Kez

Hi,it must really be a scary feeling,the person who was there when the angels were conceived has sudenly decided to bail on u,what i can say is \&quot;God does not give u a battle that he knows u wont b able to win at the end,and God does not make things easy however he makes them possible.U will get through this,it might not seem that way now,however u will.U r in my thoughs,heart and prayers,plz keep us posted.And keep ur head high and show ur husband ur tough and u will get through this with or without him.