I'm 14 and i got pregnant back in may. My mom couldn't handle it so i went to live with my friend. well i went into labor and gave birth 3 months early. She wasn't breathing on her own when she came out. The doctor said that everything was going to be okay. I went to visit her everuday while she was in the pedatric ICU. One night at about 11:30 the hospital called and told us to get there as fast as we could. they told us that the machines weren't helping her and that we could take her off them and that she would die or we could leave her on them and she could die. So i really had no choice either way i wasn't going to have my baby girl. It was hard but i told them to take her off the machines.. one hour later she died.. It was very hard for me. I wish she was here with me and i had pictures of her to put up here. And last week i started school again.. There was so many questions.

Congradulations to all of you out there who have healthy beautiful babies. d

wow. im so sorry for what your going through, it must be so hard. all i can say is that god must really love your daughter, to take her to heaven so soon he must have wanted her close to him. i dont no if that makes you feel any better. my son is due in just seven days and i couldnt imagine him being taken away from me like that. you must be so strong. god bless you.

gina lynn

Hi there! I miss my daughter too, but it's not the same way as you. See, I had my daughter at 15 years old. I started court when I was 16 years old, as my daughter's father and I no longer could stay together. It was an awful time period being with him for a year with my daughter, though, it was great because I got to keep my daughter when I was with him. See, now she is away at different times because he has visitation with her and he lives only 5 minutes away from me (Living with his parents, like I do...) He is 20 years old, and living life like everyone should, happy.

I'm sorry that you lost your child, though, she was born. I wish that she could've been healthy/ier. I wish things could change, though, as we all know, they can't.

How do you handle the stress back at school? What grade are you in? If you are completed with high school, what are you majoring in college?

Right now, my daughter is away with her father. She has been gone alomst a week, she comes home on Friday. I'm so happy and I can't wait until she comes home. There is only ONE more day when I wake up tomorrow, and I can't wait to see how she is doing, and what she has been doing...

I wish my daughter was here too. But, this MAKES me realize HOW precious she is, how MUCH she MEANS to me. I want to thank you for making me feel good about my daughter not being with me. It makes me feel good that I know she'll be home soon, and how much I do miss her. Thank you! I wish the best for you and yours. I am sorry.

Take Care,
Nicki

awww hunny. I will hopefully never feel your pain.
Thats so sad what happened with your little girl. Just think she is watching over you and when you have another little child she will watch over him/her too.

Oh girl I am so sorry! I dont know how it feels and I am sorry you are going through so much pain. Try to stay strong and keep your chin up, and just think that she is up in heaven and she has no pain.

Wow! sweety im so so sorry that happened if it was up to me no one would ever have to lose a baby....but i did see the piture and i don't care what anyone says....your baby girl would of been the most prescious miricle of your life and at least you did get to see her... that's all you think is that she knew her mommy was always there for her...and that you did what you did because it would of been her best intrest.. and just doing that shows me that when or if you do have another child that your going to be the best mommy ever... 14 is a young age and your mother should be proud of you that you were willing to step up to your responsabilities and be a parent....hunny i know you miss your daughter but all you can do is thank god for being able to see her...and that hopefully she's looking down on you and smiling thanking you for being there.. And don't worry about the kids at school just try to stay away from that for a while (the kids , not school...you need that) just try to get back into your routine... i hope i hepled any....if you need to talk im here.... im only 16 and might be having a baby myself...

take care sweety.....xx Erica