I am 24 years old. I am from Brazil and I am pregnant (4 weeks now).
My boyfriend is married and he has a little son. I was thinking about abortion, but I don't know if it is the right choice. In fact, i think it is not. I am almost sure that he wants the abortion.
We are together since February 2005. Almost 2 years! And she (the wife) got pregnant at this time. They have a baby with just 8 months old! They are not living like husband and wife, but she doesn't know about me and they are still leaving together.
I told him about the pregnancy, he told me to be calm. But I can't!! My parents will not accept, I know. I don't have any doubt about this. I need leave my home if I decide keep the baby. They disapproval this relationship.
He told me that he wants stay with me. But he is not! He is still with the wife and son and I am still alone! When was just me, was very different. Now, I will have a baby!
I was taking medicines to contraception, but I had renal failure and the hormones didn't work.
I have the dream about marry and have a family... Now I am felling so lonely. I don't know what to do. We work together and I am afraid of what the people will say and thing. I will look guilty for they. And it is not my fault!!!
Yesterday I told him about my concerns. I don't know if he was listen... This picture it is like my baby today.

its up to you but having an abortion is the most hardest thing to do in th whole world. I would've kept my baby if i didnt have to choose. I reckon that you are a strong girl with a good head on your shoulders you will make a great mum. I was 8weeks along when a aborted my baby and i still ahve nightmares and everything about it and it happened last week.

Just think bout it very hard coz if you have abortion you might regert it like i did. just think long and hard

i had an avbortion in may and it was the worst thing i have ever and will ever do. you dont think it is going to be that hard but after its done you cant change it. you just have to make sure that what ever you do it is your decission you will regret it so much more if you were pushed into something, you will be alot stonger if you go through with it and keep ya head high then give in to something being to hard, no matter what you chose its gonna be hard so you always got us to talk to thats what we are here for. gudluck

Maybe the abortion is not the best choice. But I don't know how I can take care of one kid alone. How can I now what to do???

Are you a mom?

Are you already a mom, what about her. Does she know about you being pregnnat? How is the guy taking all this?