I am the type of girl no one expects to get pregnant; 14, Church going, kind, well off, i get good grades, had tons of friends, and generaly do nothing wrong. Well that is up until august 15 i did nothing wrong. I was angry with my parents and i ran off to my boyfriends house. He knew i was angry and he took advantage of me. I thought nothing of it until i missed my period. I took a pregnacy test with my friends and i came up positive. They were all there just staring at it with me. Since that night none of them have spoken to me, it's like they didn't wan't me to hurt the reputations. I called my boyfriend the other night and he is in denial, and without him i have no idea what i am going to do. I haven't told my parents yet because i can't face them alone, i have no idea what i am going to do. Why did this happen to me, why do i always screw things up.

I am 16 and 6 months prego. You didn't screw up. You did what a teenager would do... only got pregnant.. lol You can get child support off of him. I thought of my pregnancy as a \"mistake\" at first with me being so young, but its not. its actually a blessing. I mean, im not the religious type, but i believe that if God intended for this to happen to you, then theres a damn good reason behind it. Ya know? I strongly DIScourage you to get an abortion. Pllllllllleeeeeeeeaaaaassssssseeeeeeeeee don't get one. I know it's going to be really really hard, but could you really live with yourself after killing an innocent child?? <<<--- i know that sounds a little rough but i had to go through my WHOLE family telling me I was a screw up and for me to get an abortion. I said no. Your parents CANNOT force you to have one. They may make you think so but they can't. By law they cant.. You can get WIC, which is where they give you free juice, milk, cereal, peanut butter, cheese, and eggs during your pregnancy. Then when the babys born they give you formula, etc.. You can get so much help its unreal. At times you may feel that you cannot do it and you really did screw up. Just remember that youre not the only one out there that has this problem. there are thousands of people like you and you CAN do this. One this is, you NEEEED to tell your parents no matter how scared you are. You NEEED to get an appointment for the gyno (female doctor).. They will tell you everything you need to know. You need to watch your diet with salty foods and unhealthy foods, and etc.. If you need anything, let me know and I will help you


-Liss

i know exactly how you feel.

you need to decide what you want and then only go to your parents other wise they will try and tell you what you want.

this is your baby and your future.

everything happens for a reason and sometimes the reason doesnt show until a few years down the line but this baby is a part of you now and his or hers destiny lies in your handa.

follow your heart girl and you can never go wrong.

Girl let me tell you something: Im 24 and im pregnant .This is my first baby and I was so depressed like you,at first.My babys daddy knows what happening but he hasnt called since he knew even thou he is not in denial.Ive felt that few people dont talk to me,but why? Im a human being and maybe I got pregnant not at the perfect way but God blessed me with this beautiful baby.I dont care what everybody say,cause we are not the first neither the last with this problem.So dont think that all you need is your bf cause is not true ,you just need to take things easy andthink what you really want.Dont take it to fast cause you may do something u really dont want to do.About the peolpledont talk to u , just dontlet themkmake you feel bad cause I dont think they are really your friends.Please! talk to your parents as soon as you can,remember the are your family and you need to take care of your baby now , God loves you a lot!Good luck !!

i think to be able to tell your parents you will need some one to act as a mediator because i've been in the situation you've been inand i found it helps if you have some one to help you break the news to your parents i hope everything goes fine for you

Oh hunny, I know you feel like you're all alone and that no one understands what you're going thru but you have so much help around you. First decide what you want to do. I am religious so I believe that there is a reason that you did get pregnate, I believe that God wants you to have this baby, but in the long run it is your choice to make. Second you have to tell your parents. It's hard yes but they do need to know. They can get you the help you will need with doctors and helping you get WIC and all of that. They may be upset at first but they are your parents and if they are any kind of good parents they will help you out and back your choice. Third go to a doctor. You need medican and check ups and all of that stuff and it is important that you get it. Fourth talk to your boyfriend face to face, explain to him what is going on and the choice you have made. If you are worried about talking to him alone, have someone you trust there or near by. And fifth, if your friends were to abandon you like that in your time of need they are not real friends and you don't need that extra stress and pressure around you right now or people like that around you now or ever. Sounds harsh but I don't think that's right that they would do that to you. If you need anything we are all here for you. Best of luck and God bless... And remember, you can do it, you are strong enough and you are NOT alone.