I'm 19 and Pregnant, I recently just moved home to my family but that's not my problem. The father was a fling, he was staying in my town working for a company based out of Jacksonville. He has since gone home but not before we had 3 weeks full of unprotected sex. We still talk on the phone and I plan to go see him when I get the time, so I guess you could say we are still seeing each other. My problem is how to tell him, if he didn't want it why would he risk it all those times, and another funny thing to me was that he was always talking about kids how he couldnt wait to have one, this all confuses me. I don't know how to take it all, I'm thinking that he's waiting for me to tell him cause I kind of think he planned it. But at the same time I'm scared to death that he'll just blow it off and my child will grow up like I grew up, without a father, I don't want that. I keep telling him I have something importatnt to talk to him about but When he asked about it I just blow it off, I don't know how to do this. I can't do it by myself........

you really need to tell him. the longer you wait the bigger chance you have of him being mad. holding on longer and longer because your scared you might lose him, could mean that you'll have a bigger chance. no matter when you tell him you'll prolly have the same reaction, but if you wait, he might get mad that you knew and hadn't told him. if it is possible i would tell him in person, but if not make sure that when you talk to him on the phone that he can talk for a while and you can as well, because it will take a while for you to get it out, and then he will react, and almost no matter how he reacts, you'll need to decuss it.

good luck